My boyfriend has become more and more distant everyday since I found out I was pregnant, what should I do?

Question

He was supportive the first couple of weeks then it just went south from there. He stopped calling me as much, he won't answer the phone when i call him sometimes, i don't know what's goin on with him. I try to give him the benefit of the doubt and just say that he's scared, cause this will be the first baby for both of us, but I don't know what to think anymore.

Answer 1

Perhaps he's just really afraid now. He's finally realizing that he's going to have a child and now that's a bit much to him. You should talk to him, and try to get him to talk to you. He needs to see that what he's done and not talking to you is very selfish. If he just wants to abandon you, he's not even worth the trouble. You're going to have a baby, and you need a lot of help, he needs to see that.

Answer 2

It sounds like he's going to abandon you. Sorry.

Answer 3

my opinion is that maybe he was so busy being excited about having the baby at first and all that excitement blocked out all the responsibility thats about to become. maybe he's just a little nervous right now ,lots of things on his mind, maybe about how to support his family to be. guys are weird somtimes. hopefully everything will be alright. anyway don't stress cause its not good for the baby.

Answer 4

H's probaly just scared and unsure....alot is changing for him to, this may help:http://www.paternityangel.com/Articles_z...

Answer 5

Pregancy is a time to bond.  Invite him along to doctor's appointments.  If he declines, update him.  If he is interested, you can bond like a normal couple.  If not, he is probably going to abandon you.  Been there done that.

Answer 6

Hes probably is just thinking about whats going on with his life. I suggest you talk to him ASAP before someone else starts to talk to him and get things in his head. Set everything straight tell him how you feel about having a baby and then try to figure out whats on his mind. In my opinion he's just nervous