My boyfriend has mood swings like crazy. Does this happen to alot of people or is something wrong with him?

Question

one second he is happy and nice and the next second..for no apparent reason he is angry at the world and everybody around him. he hates everything and is so negitive. It seems like its always at the same time every day. I was thinking he was bipolar but he doesnt have all the symptoms to that.

Answer 1

Relationships can be rocky and hopefully you guys are just going through a rough patch.  With bipolar disorder moods don't just switch at any given moment.  It is an increasing thing over time.  Borderline personalities switch like this.  Check it out.

Answer 2

Mood swings can be taken care with the right meds.  It could be a part of Bipolar.  

Mood swings are something you don't want to live with nor do you have to.

He will never know about mood swings unless he talks to a professional.

I also have mood swings.  I take the proper meds for this.  There is also a small amount of antidepressent in the meds I take. The two go hand and hand.  

It's time for him to do something about this.  His life could be much happyer and also for the people around him.  

Answer 3

nah not crazy...sometimes i have theses days were im all emo and hate everything and then the next day be back to normal. All my friends noticed it and some times they have them to. They all think im weird. I think the best thing to do is just confront him about it and try to stop them. Then again he might have somthing wrong with him case its probly only happenig to me cause like puberty or something cause im still growing.....so best thing to do is tell him about the mood swings.

Answer 4

does he work out much? There maybe a possability of him taking steroids. And one major side effect of steroids is increased mood swings.

Answer 5

1. if he used to be a nice guy but he changed over time, he's either bored or cheatin on you

2. he's having problems at work/with his friends

3. he's bipolar..

4. overall, you should talk to him and get rid of that guy if he won't change. don't waste your time with someone who doesn't appreciate you

Answer 6

Omg... My friends boyfriend is exactly the same!! I live with them, so I see the moods swings all the time. I swear he will be happy and talkin one minute, and then the next he is pissed off and doesnt want to talk to anyone, and no one even did anything to him! Im like holy ****. But ya it doesnt happen everyday, but I mean it happens enough that people say he is always in a grumpy mood. But ya, I said he was freakin bipolar or had some major *** mood swings, and my friend actually said that he admitted that he was bipolar I guess. So i mean it sounds like the same thing she is going through...

Answer 7

Sounds like he is what they call Bi-polar.

Another name, or diagnoses for someone who becomes angry for no apparent reason.

Answer 8

hmmm...the same time every day?   Could be blood sugar level or diet related.  When blood sugar levels run low or rampant they can cause havoc with our central nervous system...have him checked out for it, its a simple test.  Or monitor what and when he is eating.

Its easy to simply just say "yeah he's bipolar, get him on medication"...many times its things as simple as what and what time of the day we are eating.  Its at least worth eliminating as a possibility.

Good Luck

Answer 9

Sounds like PMS, but I highly doubt that's it... He probably is bipolar or possibly even has a split personality. He doesn't have to have ALL of the symptoms to have it. Suggest to he goes to a psychologist so that he can be tested.

If that's not it, it might be depression, normal adolensence, or anxiety.