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My boyfriend has started treating me differently...What to do?

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At first, my boyfriend was nothing but a gentleman and treated me so well. Now, after a year of dating, he's gotten very comfortable around me. He farts, he says disgusting things around me, and basically acts the same way he would act around his guy friends. Why is this happening? Is there anything I can do about it?

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  1. GRRRRRRL tell me about it my boyfriend is the exact same way farts totally the same idk he was a total gentlemen when we first started dating now he is a total  A $$  lolz pardon my french but yeah in the same situation  


  2. Let him know how it makes you feel.

  3. tell him your feelings if he doesn't listen or

    care then it's time to

    dump him


  4. re: he's gotten very comfortable around me

    .....this can be either very good or very bad depending on how good he is now that he's comfortable and showing his other self to you.  

    If you do not like his other self, you can work to change him,  accept him as he really is or LEAVE for someone you like better.

    check here for some ideas:

    http://www.google.com/search?client=oper...

  5. The only reason it is happening is because you let it.  Apparently you have given him the belief that your standards will allow this behavior.  The only way to set it straight is to put your foot down.  Clearly define your relationship and boundaries.  It is not right to just assume that he knows that this bothers you,  You Must Speak Up!

    Or learn to live with it.

  6. farting  around you means is no treating differently.

    He is feeling comfortable and  homely when he is

    with you. That do not mean he is bad. Its that he is

    not  well mannered. Tell  him nicely that passing

    wind often is not good. He should do that  in private.

    You may teach him some good manners without

    offending  his feelings.




  7. lol at the first comment XD

  8. lol

  9. If the physical attraction is still there between you, just let it go.  He was on his best behavior in the beginning, and now he is just truly being himself.  It happens all the time.  Either you have to accept it, or break up with him.

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