My boyfriend has talked about getting married and now hes not sure. But I am ready what do we do?

Question

He says his heart is ready and say its all right but he says his mind tells him not to. I'm ready to get married and tired of waiting. What do I do?

Answer 1

Give it a little bit more time. The last thing you want to do is try to push him into it if he doesn't feel it's right. He needs to work it out within himself. I know it's really hard because you want to get married right now, but you want to make sure both of you are ready.

Don't worry - things will happen for you.

In the meantime maybe you could suggest going to couples counseling. It might help if he could talk it over with an unbiased person. It really helps a lot of couples...

Good luck!  

Answer 2

If he's not ready don't pressure him, this could lead to an unpleasant reaction. If you are willing to wait for him to make up his mind by all means do so. If not find you someone else who knows what he want and is ready to make that decision.  

Answer 3

wait until ur both ready

Answer 4

I hate to be brutally honest, but the fact that he's struggling with this means that he is not ready. What you have to decide is what your deal breakers are. Is being married the most important thing in your life? If so, talk to him and see if that is his goal in life as well. If it isn't, are you willing to throw away the entire relationship? Whatever you do decide, you both have to be willing to take this leap. Marriage is not something to be dealt with lightly. If you jump into something that you both are not ready for, then it could end up breaking what bond you had. If you feel that you are going nowhere and need to be married soon, realize that if you leave him to find someone that is positive they want to be married, you will have to start all over with that new person.

Answer 5

That's the way we were too.  I waited until he was ready to do it.    

Answer 6

Walk away, he is whinging and you are ready.

If he sees you go he will wake up I am sure, or do you want to spend you life pandering to his insecurities ?