My boyfriend is adamant about going to the navy active duty and wants to be with me?

Question

and eventually marry me. however i am in he middle of my clinicals in nursing school i cant just pick up and leave....he says he doesnt want to lose me...we only been dating 4 mos...idk what to do i am beginnig to fall in love with him but i must get myself established first before i start thinking of marriage and traveling around the world....

will this work out....i dont ant to lose him either but i cannot ditch my dreams for his

Answer 1

Why do you keep posting this question? It has had many answers and no one knows what one you are looking for.

Answer 2

well, you wouldnt have to move away with him...long distance relationships dont always c**p out....i would suggest staying with him while you work in school and he is in the service.....i know a good number of couple that are seperated by the military and they are still lookin good.....at least give distance a chance before you make any decisions....good luck

Answer 3

Continue your studies. You can't immediately go with him anyway, he has to go through basic training and school, this takes months, in the meantime you can continue your relationship through emails, phone calls, and letters. You've only been dating 4 mos, to soon to decide if this is the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. If he's the one, in time you will know it, and if he truly cares for you, he'd want you to continue your studies and support you in your decision and be willing to wait.

Answer 4

Don't put your life on hold. Continue your relationship if that is what you truly want but continue your schooling.I didn't I followed my soldier to Germany and left it all behind.Now six years later I am finally starting school.I realized I made a mistake by doing that because as a military spouse you often have are alone with out them anyways.If you are already on your way keep your direction.Let him establish his and meet in the middle.He will be very busy with basic training and all that comes with starting out new to active duty the best thing is to just be there for him and when you are ready you will know.Good Luck.

Answer 5

to love is to give. however i don't recommend such a crucial decision because after all you have a life. and time can make love pass and perhaps leave you empty handed. set your priorities first and make sure which one of them is making you happier. Love or Career. Be aware of the risks that those 2 bear. love can pass with time but it can also be the prettiest thing ever felt. career though can make you satisfied by yourself and make you happy again. so make up your mind and check if you do have the currage and if you're sure. good luck

Answer 6

Well you can't go on sea duty with him so it's up to him to decide what his priorities and prerogatives are.