My boyfriend is addicted to s*x and i cant be see him all the time im afraid he will cheat on me what do i do?

Question

my boyfriend is addicted to s*x and i cant be around him all the time im afraid that he will cheat on me i want to know what i can do and say to him so he wont cheat on me. i try to trust him by letting him go out and play the game with his friends but i still dont know if he is cheating. what do you think i should do and what do you think i can say to him so he wont even want to.

Answer 1

leave him

Answer 2

First I hope ur having safe s*x. Next and you probably heard this before is that if ur have questions about his faithfulness then he not the "one"!!  The "one"  will be unquestionably faithful and you would not be worrying ur self whether or not he is cheating. If he has given you any reason to feel that he has cheated on u, not just because he like to have s*x but something he has said or actually done, then move on.

Answer 3

There's is nothing you can do to stop someone cheating.

How fun is this relationship for you?  Worrying about what he's up to when you're not there?  Seriously, is this relationship worth the worry??

Answer 4

well does he seem like the cheatin type and if thats a yes  get one of the cheaters agents and they can find out for u but if u dont have the money to do that then catch him when he doesnt know u around or u can look on his phone for numbers but watch out bec u might call a family member or something lol or u can just trust him.....

Answer 5

Get outta there honey...Unless you have seen the official diagnosis for the s*x addiction he has - it's just an excuse to cheat on you in the future and appear blameless. "I can't help it, I love you, it's just s*x, blah blah blah I have a problem bla blah". You don't need the stress and insecurity this will cause you....You are better than that surely.

You could get a tattoo of Lorraine Bobbit in his pubic region...that might keep him faithful to you if you want to stay.

Answer 6

first if he is a good person and bf he would not do that and respect you can't do that all the time or when he wants. Second everyone has worries but if you have to worry all the time, it's not worth it. Relationships should be 50/50.

Answer 7

break up with him and find someone who uses the term 'sexual addiction' in place of 'complete lack of sef control and respect for my girlfriend'  or get an invisible fence...

Answer 8

ok if hes addicted to s*x u should talk to him and bring other stuff and try to kick that out of his mind but if ur afraid that he will cheat on you hire someone to watch him like this women had the same problem and she hired a detective and she found out that he wasn't cheating on her he just left and sat in random places not saying you boyfriend might but if your so worried go to an adviser and go get advice but i would try to keep my eye on him.

Answer 9

You can try doing the really kinky stuff. The kind of stuff that he would have to pay for on the outside. That way he will stick with you instead of wasting all his money.

Or you can chill and have some faith.

Answer 10

If you even have to think twice about whether or not he's sleeping around, he's not worth it.  Go out and find someone worthy who you know is not going to sleep around just because you cant/wont put out all the time.

Answer 11

i wish that my boyfriend were like that like honestly you should be worried because guys like that only think with one thing but if your worried that he will cheat on you , you need to make the bedroom fun... do weird, kinky, roll play, everything atleast once a day and you'll be straight ....... just dont get boring because thats when his mind will wander elsewhere