My boyfriend is againt me modeling!

Question

He is the type of guy that will expect you to wear what he finds apropriate. I told him that I was going back into modeling, and he didn't want to hear about it. Started saying hurtful things. All because he wants things to be his way. Am I silly for wanting to go back into it? And does he have a right to be this way?

Answer 1

He could just be a little jealous, and he is being a little selfish. He shouldn't control your life. Your boyfriend should be a part of your life that you should cherish, not a commanding ruler who's making you hurt. Tell him its something that YOU want to pursue. It shouldn't be his choice. If he's still really discouraging about it, he might not be the right one for you, or maybe he's just in a phase that's making him feel insecure.

Answer 2

  The girl I have been seeing ,is a model, yes its hard at times with all the guys lusting over her, but at the end of the day she leaves with me. And if modeling is what puts a smile on her face, and that is what it takes for her to be happy then it is meant to be. Life is way to short  not to be happy. You just have to figure out if your boyfriend will stay with you modeling, or you can do without him. Then decide what makes you happier.

Answer 3

Hello!  He is just a stupid bf!  He's not your husband and if he has that many jealousy issues that he will actually demean you just to get his own way then he's not worth yout time anyway!  It's your life!  Your career!  He won't be around forever, but your the prospect of your future will. He does not have a right to be this way and you don't have to listen to him.  Forget him.  Tell him to grow up.

Answer 4

no you just do you forget him if he doesent want you to do what makes you happy then youre too good for him

Answer 5

That is the reason we have the dating environment, to weed through the ones who do not meet our needs.  Your lucky, he showed his true feelings and insecurities now, and not after getting married or getting you pregnant.  Kick his butt to the curb and continue your modeling career, you will find someone who will love and respect you.  Good luck.

Answer 6

He sounds manipulative to me. You can do what you want with your life. My boyfriend was estatic about me modeling. A little worried I get into bigger things though, like "adult magazines" lol.

But if it's just clothes modeling or modeling for a some product, I don't think he has the right to be upset. At least, he needs to explain why he's so upset.

It could be he's lost an old flame because she went into modeling and found someone. That could be a possibility. I would really talk to him again. But don't let him change your mind about this. It's not a "bad" job, it makes good money, and really, no one touches you.

I wish you two luck. But if he's gonna be like that without an explanation, he's not worth it in my opinion.

Answer 7

dump him.

Answer 8

Sounds to me as if this is more about you allowing an overbearing jerk to determine how you live your life.  You are a grown woman and you should care enough about yourself to find someone who loves and supports you, not who controls or dominates you with out your consent.  If you are not in an active Dominant/submissive relationship, then his actions are totally inappropriate and you need to get out, pursue your own life and find a real man.

Answer 9

He does not own you! You are your own individual with your own mind. He is not your husband and there is no ring or piece of paper linking you 2 together. If my husband was to tell me what to do and how to do it we surely would not be together. If he loved you for who you are he would support you in any decision you chose to make. He may not apporve of it but would respect your decision. Maybe it's time to find a NEW MAN!!!! Get out why you can!

Answer 10

DUMP HIS BUTT! if modeling is something you want to do then do it! follow your dreams! you could become the next Tyra banks! don't let him stop you! tell him that its something you really want to do and if he loves you he would let you do it but if he wont let you model then forget him you can find somebody who supports you.

Answer 11

you are not silly for going back into modeling! if it is what you want to do don't let anyone get in the way of that! expecialy your boyfriend. i bet he is just saying that is cause he cares about you and dosnt want to loose you in the modeling world cause i heard that its a very big deal to get to model!        and congradulations for getting into modeling!     good luck and i hope i helped

Answer 12

Well you must always remember to take care of yourself first.  If modeling is your dream them go for it.  If he truly loves you and cares about your dreams, future and feelings he will except whatever you want to do for love.  You should never let someone control your life or do what they expect you to do.  Follow your dreams and heart and once your on the right track in your life everything else will fall in place.

Answer 13

ur not silly 4 wanting 2 get in2 it but i think that he's scared that other guys (models) will look @ u and stuff and of course, no GUY would want that of their girlfriend