My boyfriend is an illegal mexican..?

Question

I have been with him for almost 3 years we have 2 babies together. He pays his taxes and everything. I want 2 marry him but I'm 2 scared he might get deported and I want him 2 be around 2 see our babies and so we can be a happy family. How can we get married and how can we get him good papers.

Answer 1

Okay.  So you spawned two children with this criminal illegal and NOW you are scared he is going to be deported?  If they take taxes out, he must have stolen someone's ID.  You certainly need to get your morals straight to pass on to your children.  Committing criminal acts is just not good.  

Just move to Mexico with him and live happily ever after.  

If caught, and it is a matter of time, he will be deported and banned from entering the U. S. of A. for ten years....  

Answer 2

Americans who aren't lazy would do those jobs.  For every "lazy" American who wouldn't do the work, there are at least two that would if they knew where the work was. And in most cases, for the same pay.    Tell your boyfriend to get the H out of here. You have bought into the patently false line  the Mexican government hopes you will buy into because they don't want your boyfriend either.   We don't want to waste our time and money paying at least $15,000 annually to try to educate your kids who are statistically most likely to drop out by the tenth grade and be a burden to the taxpayers for most of their adult lives.  Not to mention paying for your family's medicaid,  TANF, accidents as  uninsured motorists, the bill for his incarceration for several years of his adult life at $30,000 per year, plus much more than that for the crimes he'll be committing that don't result in prison time.  All of the above are statistically more likely to happen than not.   I know, I know, he is different than those Mexicans.     BS.  Only If he entered legally meaning he was screened by DHS or maybe INS for education, skills, experience, finances, relationships and other factors  is he different.  Trespassing  Mexicans  KNOW they would NEVER be allowed in legally due to their lack of these factors which tend to keep people from becoming a ward of the state.

Answer 3

Marriage will not protect him,he will be deported and rightly so. You should have thought about all of the consequences before you selfishly created children with a criminal.

P.S. Illegal mexicans are able to take American jobs because greedy business people can pay them practically nothing. There is absolutely no job an American wont do,that's propaganda people like you keep telling themselves so you don't have to face the reality of just how messed up your views and morals are.

Answer 4

Get married in Mexico first, and then you file the papers to get your husband citizenship, or at least some kind of visa, over here. It's  better to file papers in a non border state where the courts aren't as flooded with immigrants paperwork. People get denied in Florida and Texas all the time, even if the are married because there're so many fake marriages for citizenship.

Answer 5

well look , first at all ignore any negative response from people who have nothing better to do than to be talking negative stuff about every undocumented as if they weren't even people . now please contact an immigration lawyer so than he advices u about the best thing u can do to help him fix his status and rely only in his answer , anyways  i gonna tell u this from what i know : the fact than u and him are not married is not a good thing at all as far as i know , so if i was u i would get married as soon as possible since in case of getting caught that would be taken into account but would not be taken into account if u two aren't married at all ... by the way the how does he pays taxes question is getting old , EVERYONE knows they pay taxes , do not worry about explaining anything to people who do not want to understand or are not capable of doing so .

Answer 6

WOW !  I thought you had to have a SS# to pay taxes?.!...

Who is he paying them to?.   Is his employer aware of his illegal status?....I doubt it.    Go back to Mexico with him and take the two illegitimate kids with you.  We don't want him here if he is illegal.  He is already a criminal, why would you sleep with a criminal, and then worry about the consequences?  You must be very young and easily influenced.   The whole family needs to go to Mexico, oh yeah, you might even get along with his wife and kids back there.    

Answer 7

He pays his taxes and everything? So hes supporting you and the babies? WOW,hows that possible, I mean I was told illegals only do jobs Americans wont do? Anyway you can no longer become a citizen just by getting married.

Edit:

25 Reasons to Deport Illegal Aliens:

>

> 1. $11 Billion to $22 billion is spent on welfare to

> illegal aliens each year.

> http://tinyurl.com/zob77

>

> 2. $2.2 Billion dollars a year is spent on food

> assistance programs such

> as food stamps, WIC, and free school lunches for

> illegal aliens.

> http://www.cis.org/articles/2004/fiscale...

>

> 3. $2.5 Billion dollars a year is spent on Medicaid

> for illegal aliens.

> http://www.cis.org/articles/2004/fiscale...

>

> 4. $12 Billion dollars a year is spent on primary

> and secondary school

> education for children here illegally.

>

http://transcripts.cnn.com/TRANSCRIPTS/0...

>

> 5. $17 Billion dollars a year is spent for education

> for the

> American-born children of illegal aliens, known as

> anchor babies.

>

http://transcripts.cnn.com/TRANSCRIPTS/0...

>

> 6. $3 Million Dollars a DAY is spent to incarcerate

> illegal aliens.

>

http://transcripts.cnn.com/TRANSCRIPTS/0...

>

> 7. 30% percent of all Federal Prison inmates are

> illegal aliens.

>

http://transcripts.cnn.com/TRANSCRIPTS/0...

>

> 8. $90 Billion Dollars a year is spent on illegal

> aliens for Welfare &

> social services by the American taxpayers.

>

http://premium.cnn.com/TRANSCRIPTS/0610/...

>

> 9. $200 Billion Dollars a year in suppressed

> American wages are caused

> by the illegal aliens.

>

http://transcripts.cnn.com/TRANSCRIPTS/0...

>

> 10. The illegal aliens in the United States have a

> crime rate that's two

> and a half times that of white non-illegal aliens.

> In particular, their

> children, are going to make a huge additional crime

> problem in the

> United States.

>

http://transcripts.cnn.com/TRANSCRIPTS/0...

>

> 11. During the year of 2005 there were 4 to 10

> MILLION illegal aliens

> that crossed our Southern Border also, as many as

> 19,500 illegal aliens

> from Terrorist Countries. Millions of pounds of

> drugs, cocaine, meth,

> heroine and marijuana, crossed into the U. S. from

> the Southern border.

> Homeland Security Report:

> http://tinyurl.com/t9sht

>

> 12. The National Policy Institute, "estimated that

> the total cost of

> mass deportation would be between $206 and $230

> billion or an average

> cost of between $41 and $46 billion annually over a

> five year period."

>

http://www.nationalpolicyinstitute.org/p...

>

> 13. In 2006 illegal aliens sent home $45 BILLION in

> remittances back to

> their countries of origin.

> http://www.rense.com/general75/niht.htm

>

> 14. "The Dark Side of Illegal Immigration: Nearly

> One Million s*x Crimes

> Committed by Illegal Immigrants In The United

> States".

> http://www.drdsk.com/articles.html

>

> 15. Every day 12 Americans are murdered by an

> illegal alien.

> Another 13 Americans are killed by uninsured drunk

> illegal aliens and

> Eight American Children are victims of a s*x crime

> committed by an

> illegal alien each day! (Toto, we're not in Kansas

> anymore.)

> http://tinyurl.com/2ungbu

>

> 16. Today, criminal aliens account for over 29

> percent of prisoners in

> Federal Bureau of Prisons facilities and a higher

> share of all federal

> prison inmates. These prisoners represent the

> fastest growing segment of

> the federal prison population.

> Incarceration of criminal aliens cost an estimated

> $624 million to state

> prisons (1999) and $891 million to federal prisons

> (2002), according to

> the most recent available figure from the Bureau of

> Justice Statistics.

> http://tinyurl.com/ahjkg

>

> 17. "Illegal Aliens and American Medicine". "Many

> illegal aliens harbor

> fatal diseases that American Medicine fought and

> vanquished long ago,

> such as drug-resistant tuberculosis, malaria,

> leprosy, plague, polio,

> dengue and Chagas disease." The Journal of American

> Physicians and

> Surgeons

> http://www.jpands.org/jpands1001.htm

>

> 18. In 2002, HIV/AIDS was the third leading cause of

> death among

> Hispanic men aged 35 to 44 and the fourth leading

> cause of death among

> Hispanic women in the same age group. Most Hispanic

> men were exposed to

> HIV through sexual contact with other men. Source

> (CDC):

>

http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/resources/factshe...

>

> 19. If enacted the Comprehensive Immigration Reform

> Act (CIRA, S. 2611)

> would be the most dramatic change in immigration law

> in 80 years,

> allowing an estimated 103 million persons to legally

> immigrate to the

> U.S. over the next 20 years -fully one-third of the

> current population

> of the United States.

>

http://www.heritage.org/Research/Immigra...

>

> 20. U.S. Sen. Jeff Sessions (R-AL) today unveiled an

> impact analysis

> that shows the Senate immigration bill -should it

> become law - would

> permit up to 217.1 million new legal immigrants into

> the United States

> over the next 20 years, a number equal to 66 percent

> of the total

> current population.

> http://tinyurl.com/3cawk3

>

> 21. The number of illegal immigrants in the United

> States may be as high

> as 20 million people, more than double the official

> 9 million people

> estimated by the Census Bureau. 1/3/05

> http://tinyurl.com/2rxtwm

>

> 22. Cases of Leprosy on The Rise In The U.S., The

> New York Times. "While

> there were some 900 recorded cases in the United

> States 40 years ago,

> today more than 7,000 people have leprosy.." Leprosy

> is an airbourne

> virus, it can also be spread by touching and

> coughing.

> http://tinyurl.com/3bnukp

>

> 23. Organizations Protesting Immigration Reform,

> State by State.

> Won't you join in?

> http://www.oregonir.org/Immigration_Refo...

>

> 24. America Welcomes Illegal's Contagious Disease.

> http://www.rense.com/general64/ill.htm

>

> 25. Mexico is the 4th Richest Oil Nation in the

> World.

> http://tinyurl.com/35qbap

>

> Illegal Alien Fact Sheet - Updated: December 10,

> 2006

> http://tinyurl.com/skyf4

>

>

> Twelve Americans are murdered every day by illegal

> aliens which

> translates to 4,380 Americans murdered annually by

> illegal

> aliens

> (Rep. Steve King, R-Iowa)

>

> Thirteen Americans are killed by drunk illegal alien

> drivers for

> another annual death toll of 4,745. That's 23,725

> since Sept. 11,

> 2001.

> (Rep. Steve King, R-Iowa)

>

> Eight American children are victims of sexual abuse

> by illegal

> aliens every day a total of 2,920 annually.

> (Rep. Steve King, R-Iowa)

>

> K-12 school expenditures for illegal aliens cost

> U.S. Taxpayers

> $7.4 Billion a year

> (US Rep.. Gary Miller)

>

> Illegal aliens consume $3.7 Billion annually in

> Medicare and

> Medicaid benefits since 40% of illegal aliens are on

> U.S. Welfare

> (Federation for American Immigration Reform)

>

> $1.6 billion is spent annually in prison costs to

> house, feed and

> clothe illegal aliens who fill 32% of our federal

> and state prisons

> (Fox News Channel O'Reilly Factor)

>

> $10 billion dollars are sent back to Mexico annually

> by illegal

> aliens (according to the Pew Hispanic Center), an

> amount which

> now makes it Mexico's 2nd largest industry.

>

> Leprosy, (Hansen's disease), was so rare in America

> that in 40

> years only 900 people were afflicted. Suddenly, in

> the past three

> years America has more than 7,000 cases of leprosy.

> Leprosy

> now is endemic to northeastern states because

> illegal aliens and

> other immigrants brought leprosy from India, Brazil,

> the

> Caribbean, and Mexico

> (Thomson American Health Consultants; 2003)

>

> Tuberculosis was virtually absent in Virginia until

> in 2002, when

> it spiked a 17% increase, but Prince William County,

> just south

> of Washington, D.C., had a much larger rise of 188%.

> (American Medical Association (JAMA) June 2005)

>

> Illegal aliens make up 32% of State & Federal Prison

> populations

> (FNC O'Reilly Factor)

>

> There are an estimated 240,000 illegal alien sexual

> predators

> currently in the USA

> (Violent Crimes Institute - May 2006)

>

> Over 1,000,000 sexual crimes are estimated to have

> been

> committed in the USA over the past seven years by

> illegal aliens

> (Violent Crimes Institute - May 2006)

>

> 90% of all crime in Brooks County Texas is committed

> by illegal

> aliens

> (Brooks County Sheriff's Department April 2006)

>

> In the Jan/Feb of 2006, of the 120,000 illegals

> caught in the

> Laredo sector, 2,500 of them were from the Middle

> East!!!

>

> A large, but unknown, number of al Qaeda terrorists

> and Chinese

> nationals are infiltrating our country virtually

> anywhere they

> choose from Brownsville to San Diego.

>

Answer 8

You should look into finding an immigration lawyer. It may cost some money, but it would be better for him to be here legal, than for him to be caught in a raid and deported.

Answer 9

Go to mexico, get married there (if he doesnt already have a wife there--many do), and then live there.  If he can enter the US legally from there, then have at it.

But I gotta ask:  How is he paying taxes--using a ITIN or someone else's stolen identity?

How on earth is it that you had 2 babies with an illegal alien, and NOW you are worried about deportation and him not being around for the kids?  

Do you think that maybe you shouldnt have procreated with a known illegal alien criminal?

Answer 10

Couldn't' find a law abiding person to love you have babies with eh.

that must suck.

Answer 11

I have to agree with the other poster who stated " they dont pay taxes" IS getting OLD.  This only goes to show that most people dont know or understand how that process works. NO it doesnt mean they have a fake SS number.  YA is the worse place to come to ask questions about immigration because a majority of people on here dont know what they are talking about due to lack of experience in that area.

I have been in the same situation as you.  First off when I meet my BF I didnt know he was undocumented.  It wasnt until much later that I found out. Yes he spoke English so I had no reason not to think otherwise and YES I had 2 children with him as well.  

The best thing to do is get a immigration lawyer. Yes he can stay in the US with the help of a lawyer. It is a timely process and costs lots of money. Getting married will not prevent him from being deported if caught BUT getting married may help him also that is where you need a lawyer.  Its hard to explain. We have spent time with a lawyer and YES getting married may help.  It all really depends on what is going on. How long has been in US the longer the better,  Kids, and a job can all help as well.  

Good Luck to you

Answer 12

Be very glad you're on a computer, missy!  LAZY AMERICANS?????  I'd step very lightly if I were you.  Plenty of responsible good ol' Americans on this forum who would love to make your acquaintance.  You speak very ignorantly  for being so "responsible".  Talk to us in 2 years when you're a single mother struggling.

HELLO......if he's illegal how is he paying taxes?  Who is he paying taxes to??  And I don't give a d**n if he doesn't get his money back.....he's not here legally so not supposed to be here.  WHAT PART OF THAT ARE YOU SLOW IN UNDERSTANDING???

IMMIGRATION - NATURALIZATION - take the steps just like everyone else and become a citizen of the US otherwise he needs to be deported.  What's the matter with you?  Don't you pay attention to what's going on in the news and in the US about illegal immigration?  He is NOT legal and he's NOT paying taxes and you knew all of this before you laid downt o have babies with this man.

If you were adult and responsible enough to have babies, then be adult and responsible about this and do the right thing.  He needs to become a citizen the proper way and that does not include running across the border at 2:30am with the feds on his heels.

Answer 13

Go to Mexico to live then if you hate Americans so much. Good riddance to you!!

Answer 14

if you marry him in mexico or here it will make no difference. i think it's better to marry him here. once you start filing paperwork to get him a green card they will tell you he has to go back to mexico. you will have to file another form to pardon the ban for him being here illegally. he may be in mexico for about 2 years waiting.

Answer 15

marryhim in mexico and then bring him back to america  

Answer 16

Move to Mexico and marry him.