My boyfriend is being so quiet?

Question

i dont know whats happened!!!

just recently - - like past 2 days

whenever we talk he says he's really distracted and today when i spoke to him i was like.. how are you? and he goes yeah pretty sh*t.. and i was like, aw why? and he'd just say i dunno.. and so i go is it anything in particular or you just dont wanna talk about it? and he's like i dunno....

and everything is "i dunno"

it was great the last time we saw each other (which was a little less than a week ago - - we're both still at school, so weekends are the only time we can really see each other) so i dont really get whats happening..

whats going on?! i feel like ive done something wrong...

Answer 1

I take it that both of you are teenagers, I don't know. Maybe he's having problems at home and he just doesn't want to talk about it right now. He could be suffering from depression. Depression can sneak up on you at anytime and alot of times you don't know why you're depressed. Or maybe he done something that will break you two up that he feel guilty about. Give him a little time and space but let him know how much you care about him and that he can trust you no matter what. Reassure him that you're not going to judge him for whatever it is that he may or may not done. Everyone makes mistakes!

Answer 2

I had this problem.He knows what's wrong he just doesn't wanna talk about it.You haven't done anything wrong.He needs to tell you if he is having a problem with you or whoever so he can work it out.

Answer 3

Guys are like that.  Sometimes even though they like someone they tend to wanna be with themselves alone.  The only thing you can do is just tell him that whatever bothers him you'll gonna give him space but tell him clearly that it doesn't mean you're not together.  If he is ready to tell you what it is he will tell you.  It's just that guys tend to solve their problems or worries alone if they need help they'll ask you.  Just be a good listener and understand him.  Don't nag about what it is. Just do the things that you know you can both do together without him getting upset.  

P.S  It's much better to tell him that you're there for them in a mail so that he will not feel obligated and will not interrupt you as you say it.