I want to confront him in a way that he will listen and understand how his finances are going to affect our growing family. He already has $16,000 in student loans and 30,000 in a car payment that is only worth $18,000. Now he is putting even more into his car and wants to buy things like a $600 exhaust for it because his friends convince him to get it. I try and tell them that he now has responsibilities with a baby on the way that they don't consider. His spending is out of control and I don't know how to talk to him without him getting upset.
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