My boyfriend is getting locked up for a year, and i might be prego should i keep the baby?? and stay with him.

Question

My boyfriend is getting locked up for a year, and i might be prego should i keep the baby?? and stay with him.

Answer 1

This is not a situation that someone can easily give advice on (not good advice at least). You do not give any details such as: can you support a child, do you have anybody that can help you, etc there are a lot of questions to ask yourself at this point.  

There is always the option of adoption rather than abortion as well. Far as staying with him, that is also something you must ask yourself. You do not say what he is locked up for, the best people to ask for this kind of help are people close to you (friends, family etc) as they know your situation best.

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Answer 2

You should keep the baby...but you need to leave him or think about the choices that both of you had made...only you can make the final decision.

Good luck with your decision.

Answer 3

You know better your situation

Answer 4

Doesn't sound like a promising dad or future for you. Keeping the baby is up to you, but I wouldn't recommend staying with him.  

Answer 5

For me, the answer would be "no and no."  

Make up your own mind.

Answer 6

Heya

Well you havnt gave enough details for a detailed answer , do you love him ? what did he get put away for ? are you 2 stable enough to have a child ?

If you love him , he needs your suport at this time and i would stay with him and have his child , it will give him something worth living for and may even get him on the straight and narrow , any way if hes only away for a year by the time babys born itll only be 3 months till his release.

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Answer 7

To me, abortion is not an option, it's wrong--adoption is a wonderful alternative. But that is MY opinion. You have to decide what is best for your life, but more importantly, your unborn child's. This baby did not ask to be brought into this situation, so you should try to be selfless in this decision. I had a beautiful baby boy when I was 15...it was the hardest thing I've ever done. But keeping my baby was what I felt was best for him and for me. For you, it may be different. Please keep in mind that only you can make this decision for yourself. Good luck, with whatever you decide to do. Keep your head up.  

Answer 8

Only you can answer that.  Don't let the opinions of complete strangers decide something like this.  Especially when you didn't even bother to include any details.  

You need to think long and hard about all of this.  Are you capable of caring for this child financially on your own since Daddy obviously won't be able to help for awhile?  Do you have a safe place to raise this child?  Are you mentally and emotionally capable of caring for another human being?  Do you have the support of your family and friends?  Will you be able to provide everything this child needs without always relying on other people?  These are all some of the things you need to take into consideration.  

Before anything else though, you need to find out if you are actually pregnant before worrying about whether or not you should keep it.

As for staying with the father, without any details, I can't even begin to offer my advice or opinion on the matter.  You'll just have to decide on your own.

Answer 9

you shouldn't ask other people advice on a problem thats so personal to you-its your life after all and you should make the decision for yourself.

best of luck with whatever decision you make

Answer 10

Well if you really want to be with him be with him but if you are unsure there is probably some other guy out there for you. I would keep the baby, by the time the father gets out the baby will still be young and if you stay together you would only be doing it alone for a few months. Women are tough, you can do it.

Answer 11

You have a lot to think about.  First I would find out for sure if you are pregnant.  If you are you have several options available to you.  Speak to your doctor about any concerns that you have.  If you aren't, I would seriously rethink the idea of staying with a man that doesn't sound like he has priorities straight.  Good Luck!  

Answer 12

i think that you should deff. take this as an oppurtunity to be responsible and have the baby. you should wait until he gets outta jail to see if he has changed and will be a good help with the baby. if not then im sure you will have help from family and friends.

Answer 13

I WOULD KEEP THE BABY, BECAUSE IT IS THE BABY FAULT THAT THE DADDY SCEWED UP

Answer 14

Why would you want to get rid of the baby just because he's getting locked up?  Did you plan on keeping the baby if he wasn't getting locked up? As far as staying with him...if you love him wait if not don't.

The final decision is yours not ours or anybody elses!

Answer 15

DONT GET RID OF YOUR BABY BECAUSE OF HIM   KEEP THE BABY AND GO YOUR OWN SEPERATE WAY

Answer 16

If you think it was questionable as to the extent of support you would,ve received from him before he went in multiply that by ten. When he gets out it'll be hard enough for him to take care of himself, and if you are still living with your parents they've decided to hang in there with you; talk it over with them...PEACE

Answer 17

No one alse should decide for u only u know how much u love him or how far r u willing to do for him.

Answer 18

Well, why is he getting "locked up"? Do you love him? These are things you have to answer and make the decision yourself, it's your life...