My boyfriend is illegal in uk and we have a baby...

Question

... he came from africa 8 years ago and still illegal we had a baby last year which have his name because in the register office they do not ask for passport, but still his situation is illegal and would like to know how to sort him out , he is working with fake papers, but he is stuck here as he is very afraid that the police will send him back his country ,

all his life is here and he is with me , i mean we are family now with the baby

could you tell me

what can i do? and how to sort him out? please

many thanks

Answer 1

They will catch him up eventually - his name is in a computer against father of the baby, these computer have a way of being connected and apart from that they can trace him through what you have just put on questions & answers

Answer 2

Why have you got involved with a lawbreaker?  And now had a baby whose father is likely to be deported?

Have you considered that he is only hoping to marry you to get uk citizenship?  It happens you know.  And when he has that, he will be off!

Answer 3

id SEND him back with you and your lump.

you have some bloody nerve.

people like you make me SO angry.

i think its the duty of Yahoo to pass your details on to immagrastions/homeoffice

Answer 4

Your bf needs to apply for a visa then hun. If your bf can prove that being sent back home would endanger his life, then perhaps the immigration dept will let him stay.

The fact that he has a gf & baby in the Uk will not matter to the immigration dept, his safety back in his native country will.

Good Luck. I hope your little family does get to stay together. X :-)

Answer 5

Having him sent back will not only be cruel to your child but also cause another british baby to grow up without a father and become dependant on benefits.I know we have a problem with illegals but we must also be human and realistic, the damage is done.

Answer 6

more fool you. You had unprotected s*x. Apart from getting yourself pregnant you ran a high chance of getting HIV/AIDS.

Answer 7

I have NO sympathy whatever.

He has lived here illegally for 8 years. Even if he has been in continuous work and never claimed a penny in benefits, he has no right to be here.

Allowing people to remain, purely on the basis that they have been here for a long time, opens too many doors to determinedly abusive claims for staying.

He should, immediately, report himself to whoever it is he should report to.

If he is denied residence, then you can always go with him and live together in his home country.

If you are left alone, then you knew that was a possibility from the beginning of your relationship, and have to live with it.

edit:

If he has been here for 8 years he MUST have been earning, has he been paying tax and insurance?

Has he not paid those, but, nonetheless, visited a doctor - because I paid for that.

Did your baby come into its life independant of the health system?

Many other things I've paid for - has he?

How is his rubbish collected?

Look at how many things legitimate people pay for and ask yourself exactly how OK it is for someone not to have to do that.

Can you even begin to understand on how many levels I find your plaintive supplication pathetic and offensive?

Answer 8

Give the Home Office your details and let them sort it out

Answer 9

IT WILL BE HIS WON FAULT IF HE GETS DEPORTED WONT IT HE SHOULDNT BE IN THIS COUNTRY ILLEGALLY AND HE CERTAINLY SHOULDNT BE WORKING AND USING FAKE PAPERS HOPE HE GETS DEPORTED  

Answer 10

it will be hard but you could marry him in his country and ask a spousal visa and he will be back soon

for an happy family

good luck though

Answer 11

go to afrika with im

Answer 12

You and him need to go to the British Embassy in his country of origin to apply for a fiance visa. This will allow you 6 months to marry in the UK and then you can apply for a marriage visa once you are married.

Answer 13

There is nothing he can do to get around the situation.  Your boyfriend should have thought of all of this when he came here illegally and especially when he decided to settle down and have a family.

He should get advice from a solicitor specialising in this area.  Not only is he here illegally but he is committing fraud by working with fake papers.  Like other poster, I have no sympathy for him.  There is an immigration system for a reason and its the people that ignore the system that throw it into disarray.

Whatever he does, he should take some steps to resolve this soon.  In a previous job we had a visit from the home office who found 8 or 9 illegals working with fake documents.  They were all taken immediately to a detention centre and then deported.

Answer 14

Don't be disheartened by some of the uglier comments here. Love needs no visa!

Your man sounds honest and hardworking. He could easily just stay on his fake name and carry on so, but he wants everything to be above board which is very laudable.

Probably your least unpleasant choice is to stay as you are, at least until your baby is a bit older. Coming out in the open may have it's risks.

Personally I think they should throw some of the scrounging scum OUT of England and bring more people like your husband over to replace them.

Don't expect compassion from others or authorities. Because your man has already broken the law people will feel justified in their harshness.

I am English. I had to raise my half Indian son alone because of Mrs Thatcher's racist immigration policies. The authorities told me (quote) 'You should have been more careful who you mated with' !!

If I were you, I would change nothing for the time being unless you can arrange a new identity for him or marry him under his fake name.

Better yet, get the h**l out of England, it's run by despots.

Good luck.

For those of you who regard my advice as immoral or illegal. Know this, THE LAW IS AN ***.  

Answer 15

marry him

Answer 16

He is breaking the law and the best thing to do would be for him to return home and for you and our baby to go with him.

If he really wants to live in the UK he can then apply to come here legally.

Working illegally in the UK under a fake name is a crime, and your boyfriend is a criminal.  I have no compassion for criminals who show complete disrespect for our laws, sorry.

Answer 17

he is an illegal

no sympathy

why should this country support him

do you work does his money cover all you expenses

am sure you claim benefits so yet again the tax payer is paying for his baby

does he pay tax national insurance

or is it a cash in hand job.

what about the cost of the child being born

have you told the child support agency who the father is

he should go home and if you want to be with him that much go with him until a visa if any is sorted out

are you aware that there is a very very very high chance on contracting aids from have unprotected s*x with a man from africa. as the rate of aids there is massive.

you have been very silly

Answer 18

tell him go back home. you think england made of monnies, only support so many scroungers like me you know!