My boyfriend is in my things?

Question

My boyfriend is 30 and we have going together for 10 years now and I just found out that has been wearing my things (bras,etc) I love him too much to end it , Can anyone help me and tell me what too do.

Answer 1

Give this guy a miss , wearing your things pleasssssse  what's next  

Answer 2

maybe try giving him some more of your real boobies instead of having him resource to fabric ones

Answer 3

Put some of his things on and change rolls. Then go to bed and have some fun. This will bring it all out in the open and turn it into some fun. It's not harming anyone, just go with the flow.   RoyM.

Answer 4

You will have to really talk about things to see if you can make it as a couple if your boyfriend is into this kind of thing.

He may be really releived that you have found out, so that he can  talk to someone about it. You are going to have to really try to just listen (presuming he will talk,) and not judge him.

Remember he probably does not choose to do this.. its probably bugged him for a very long time.

Couples can stay together in this instance, and it does not necesarrily mean he is g*y.

He may be keen to live as a woman which would be particulalry challenging or this might be just something he needs to do from time to time.

There are no real answers to why people have things like this.. He is still the same man, just now you know something more about him.

It is going to take a lot of talking and working out, but you could stay together.

I would defiantely advise getting some prof. help from someone who has dealt with this before. Try the yellow pages or emergency counselling services. Try g*y help line if none of these can help.. just to get a referral.

I have a friend who's father dresses as a woman regularly. He is in his 70's. She accepts him and loves him for who he is.. but that does take a long road of gettting over the shock and learning to accept him.

Its not going to be easy for everyone, however chances are you cannot change him. Dont try.

Good luck to you both

Answer 5

He's just odd.

Answer 6

He was wearing YOUR bras?? how strange

Answer 7

he is crosdresser

Answer 8

If you love him too much to end the relationship then you must accept him as he is...a cross dresser.   If the objection is the fact that he is wearing your things then tell him to purchase his own or help him in purchasing his own items.

Answer 9

Ignore it. It's no big deal.  He is just being kinky.  Give him his own drawer with your old underwear and let him get on with it.  After 10 years you might need a spark to get you both lit up again.

Answer 10

hahaha thats weird

Answer 11

talk to him about it, if he denies it then maybe he is embarrased or scared about how you will react. if he owns up to it, be prepared to hear things you may not like. Maybe you could watch a movie that has that sort of thing in it or find something on youtube and make it something to laugh about saying that maybe your fine with people like that and that they should be loved the same and not treated different. Alternatively you could bring it right out, maybe try a little role reversal? chuck on one of his shirts and no panties, throw a bra at him and suggest a little role reversal, it might be a good laugh and open him up a little.

hope it all goes o.k, good to hear you love him too much to just chuck it all away.

oh P.S - i found my brother doing the same thing! little harder to bring the subject up with him!

Answer 12

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talk to him about it...thats kinda strange.

you're SURE he's a guy?