My boyfriend is in the air force i don't know what to do?

Question

my boyfriend is in the air force and we don't get to talk that much hes coming back in 10 more days and staying for 2 weeks its like i lost connection with him but i really miss him alot we did alot together but its so hard being away from him i don't get to talk to him or he cant call me i really don't know what to do

Answer 1

This is going to sound slightly rude but, a little advice from an AF wife......

Separations are hard, yes, but Honey!!! - his JOB and his COUNTRY have to come first above everything, including you. Serving the United States is his first priority. No biggie - If he can't call, he can't call. You really need to understand that, and you need to come to terms with the fact that you cannot do or say anything about it. I'm sure you're a big girl. Grow up and stop being so selfish.

The last thing that Airman needs is a needy girlfriend on his plate.

Answer 2

GROW UP! CAN YOU ONLY THINK OF YOURSELF!

Answer 3

it is tough, and this is why we say the family of military members sacrifice as well.

Answer 4

it is really hard but at least you know hes coming home and that you'll get to see him.  For your relationship to resist you need to be deeply in love.  i dont think you are in love because if you were you wouldn't be confused or asking what to do, you would be willing to wait... no matter what.    

Answer 5

It's hard to give you advice, the military isn't exactly  great occupation for relationships, especially during initial training and war times. It all depends on how close you two were, you have 10 days to think about how it will be but something I've learned is things rarely go as planned. Hope for the best and if it's not like it was access the relationship and adjust as needed. Hopefully things will work out.

Answer 6

i know how you feel, my ex just left a couple weeks ago and we broke up a month and a haft before he left and i miss him like crazy right now. all i want to do is talk to him. cherish those 2 weeks you have with your boyfriend. i'm sure once he comes home and you're in his arms again the connection will come right back. i hope everything works out for you :)