My boyfriend is my only friend?

Question

Don't get me wrong, I love him more than anything in the world, we have a great friendship and relationship, but sometimes I wish I could find friends. For some reason I just don't bond with people right off the bat (girls especially). Whenever he's having a boy's night out or hanging out with his friends and I'm not along I just feel left out because I don't do that with anyone else besides him. I'd love to have girlfriends that I could just talk to, vent with, and just someone to go out and do girly things with, but I don't. Anyone else have the same problem?

Answer 1

thats good you a lucky g*y and honest your aim patner have a happy lilife

Answer 2

no i have a lot of friends try talking to people a lot like every day and maybe you can be friends

Answer 3

I have the same problem, everyone does drugs and are alcoholics around here or they are just stupid, i hope everything works out for you.

Answer 4

you already are questioning the fact that you are  leading  a very co-dependent life style.( which is not a healthy relationship.) Good, this fact proves that you are aware of this. Try joining some sports activity or dance classes are always a great way to meet other class mates of your own age group. Hip-Hop dancing is very popular. Educational courses in various subjects that interest you is another way of meeting people you have something in common with. Be friendly to whom ever you want to be friends with and I am sure they will reciprocate. Good Luck!

Answer 5

Check out some clubs at school (if you're in high school, maybe? Sorry don't know you didn't say) and meet people with similar interests. Be chatty with people in the halls. Smile at people. Once you show people how friendly you are and that you want to meet new people, they'll open up to you.

Maybe try talking to your sister. How mature is she? She could be totally immature or very mature, or somewhere in the middle. I'm 13 and very mature, us 13-14 year olds can surprise you ;) Good luck! I think you're lucky you have as great as a realationship with your boyfriend as you say you do =)

Answer 6

Try going to a club or play a sport you want to play.  You will have similar interests.  If not, try to find a girl like at lunch and get to know her.

Answer 7

Ask your boyfriend if he knows anyone that could a good friend to you.

Tell him that girls need other girls to. Just spend a little more time to get to know people.

Good Luck!

Answer 8

See , I understand your problem but this behavior  of your might be the one your boyfriend likes in you.. SO think before you experiment,  

Answer 9

I assume you're in your teen?

How about school friends? How about a neighbor?