My boyfriend is thinking about breaking up with me?

Question

My boyfriend said he is thinking about breaking up with me because we never see each other (I've been going out with him for a week and we live like 3 mins away from each other). So I told him to take his time thinking, and I am FREAKING OUT right now. I REAAALLLYYY like him. So do I try to change his mind or be cool about it? (by cool I mean like saying "it's your decision, I under stand, etc.) HELLLPPP!

Answer 1

Try to see him more often and tell him how you truthfully feel. Tell him that you respect his decision and that you still want to be friends if he breaks up with you. But now tell him your feelings and hope for the best.

Answer 2

well if you really like him then try to

get him back, spend more time

with him. but if theres tht moment where

you just know it is going to not work out,

at least break up with him first.  

Answer 3

Ok if your going to breakup and youve only lasted a week you dont need him be independant break up with his first give him what he deserved especially making you worry about it like this tell him hes too clingy and u need someone more stable... he will be falling all over you and he will be begging for you back (more than likely)

and if he dosent he dosent really want you now...

take care-

-christina-

Answer 4

tell him that its only been a week and you can go visit each other any time of the day since u live that close. me and my girlfriend live like 40 minutes away and i see her like once a week and were fine.

Answer 5

Don't be desperate, dump him. Your avatar looks like you're hot, I'm sure you could find someone else.

Answer 6

Chin up. Take it with dignity.

You can't 'make' anybody like you.

And there are plenty of other great guys out there.

Answer 7

sooo....walk to his house and chill w/him

Answer 8

It is possible that he just wants more attention. Yes, if you really like him try to change his mind by telling him, that you want to spend more time with him, and you are glad that he brought it up because you feel the same way. If he says no, he already made up his mind then it was just and excuse he wanted to break up. By you saying "it is your decision" sounds like you don't really mind what he decides.

Answer 9

his lose, not yours

Answer 10

If he made up his mind, he's not gonna change it. you should b cool about it

Answer 11

i would just talk to him about it. if you live so close maybe try to find sometime when you can hang out just the two of you. good luck.  

Answer 12

well tbh

you've been going out a week :|

if you liked him that much or he liked you that much then you would of made the effort to see eachother.

its your own fault, and even if you were to persuade him to stay with you,you'd have to go see him.

if you try and change his mind, to me thats kinda desperate.

you cant make someone like you.

and you want him to be definately sure he likes you..

you dont want to be a 'shes ok,she'll do for now' girl.

so be cool with it.

you'll move on.

Answer 13

He has already made up his mind, and you just can't change it, you might REAAALLLYYY like him, but he's not the last fish in the pond, you should be able to REAAALLLYYY like some other guy sooner than you think.

Answer 14

try talking to him

Answer 15

Don't allow him to do this too.. It takes 2 people to be in a relationship.. I'd say if he's saying that then dump him first.. more fish in the sea..

Answer 16

He probably thinks that you don't really like him.

maybe on the outside you're confident and make it seem like you don't need him.

If he decides to break up with you then it wasn't meant to be just move on.

but you could've tried a little harder in the relationship.

3 mins away from each other and you never went over to see him?

pretty bad.

Answer 17

he has issues if he doesn't see you if you live that close, or maybe he's busy, or you're busy.

just ask him to go see a movie or go for a walk and talk, maybe so something fun like roller blading, go have fun with him so he knows you're capable of spending time with him

Answer 18

NOOOOO..... 3 minutes away, go to his house and hang out wit him er something, try to make everything u can to stay with him if u like him a lott!!!!1

Answer 19

ur 3 min. away and hes thinking about breaking up with u bc ya'll don't see each other??...

um why don't ya'll make an effort to see each other??

u do have to work at relationships..

so go hang out with him...if u really like him.

Answer 20

if he is thinking that, either he doesnt really like you so you can dump him first or just tell him that your okay with it or forget he ever excisted.

Answer 21

Break up with him first. Then find a nicer guy and brag about it to him.

Answer 22

ask yourself this question: do u really want 2 be with a guy who wants 2 break up w/ u? chances are he made up his mind already so maybe u should break up w/ up w/ him  

Answer 23

he told you the problem already, so fix it! spend more time with him, make him feel special.

Answer 24

well there's no point in dating someone if there thinking about breaking up with you or who don't actually like you because then the relationship is boring.  So what you can do is talk to him about it and say we could try to see each other more often or ask him to go to the movies or something

hope it all works out for the best  =]

good luck  

Answer 25

well tell him that u do see each other and etc. an tell him u love him mabye his mind well change or mabye he met some else girls will be grils u break up with him befor he break ups with u hope that helps :D

Answer 26

if he's thinking about it probably means he's made up his mind...sorry to hear that...get away before you wind up hurt

Answer 27

JUST SAY 'well if youre going to mess with my head like that then YOU are dumped mate!!'

DONT LET PEOPLE TREAT U LIKE THAT.

GET RID BEFORE U GET 2 ATTACHED

x*x

Answer 28

you cant make a guy change his mind well you could but its not worth it bc u dont need to change for any guy