My boyfriend is upseting me?

Question

everytime i mention babies my boyfriend ignores me and gets stressed with me. I bore him. but he says he does want one. i dont beleive him.

Answer 1

Why is this question in the primary school section, it should be in family section.

Maybe he doesnt want one at this stage

Answer 2

Wait until he's your husband and not just your boyfriend before you start discussing babies. Wait until you're both ready. Otherwise you'll be raising a kid on your own,and from

what I hear being a single mother is not easy for the parent

or the child.

Answer 3

Girl...He doesn't want one. Atleast not now. He is probably getting advice from his friends and their saying bad things about fatherhood. Wait a while and in the meantime try to expose him to shows or movies that show parenthood in a positive light. And please don't force him. You do want him to stay with you right? You don't want him cheating. So take your time. Give him another year or so and see where his head is. Good Luck! He's probably just really nervous. Guys are just like that. A baby! Whoah! Just ease up on the convo about babies. That can be scary...lol

Answer 4

He's your BOYFRIEND. Not your fiance or husband. If he wanted to get serious, he would engage or something. Just don't talk about having kids and have fun with your relationship.

P.S. This reminds me of Kelly and Ryan from The Office. Ryan eventually broke up with Kelly- hint, hint.

Answer 5

maybe its the wrong time for him.

maybe he wants to wait till you both.

are more secure.

Answer 6

How old are you both? I think he is smart to ignore you when you talk about baby, it is not that simple and easy to raise a child.

Answer 7

I am sorry to hear this. Boys can be insensitive sometimes. You have to communicate with him. Ease into the subject more, but before you do, make sure you have his attention. NO t.v., no headphones.. and DEFFINITLY no food.  any of those things are guaranteed distractions if you are looking to have his attention.

Answer 8

Geez you already have 3, maybe he doesn't want to be babydaddy # 4

Answer 9

Sit him down and discuss it with him properly.  Tell him to tell you the truth, does he want a baby or not, instead of giving you mixed messages.  If you are 33 you dont really want to wait too much longer if you are both going to have one.

Answer 10

Mention it again to him once you have been married a few years - Im sure by then he will have a different reaction.

Answer 11

ARE YOU CRAZY? you have three that's anuff! get off food stamps and talk to him again about more kids