My boyfriend just broke up with me. He loves me but doesnt want to get hurt. How can I show I still love him?

Question

My boyfriend and I went out for 16 months. We had a few breaks over time because I would unintentionally hurt him, with the help of male friends. I love him so much, but he is scared to go back out with me because of our past. What can i do to show that my eyes are only for him and ever will be.

Answer 1

tell him what you just said...tell him how you dont want to hurt him and you never meant to...although you can try a little harder to stay away from your "male friends"

Answer 2

Hi there!

I'm not sure how you actually hurt him in the past with your male friends. if he is hurt because he is overly possessive or sensitive, then there is a chance that you may do it again. if it is because of somehing that you did that you can stop doing then maybe you can convince him over time that you can love him and not hurt him anymore.

you should be patient with him and get try to get him to go out casually, if he agrees to hand out with you, once he gains more confidence, you'll get back together.

If he doesn't wanna come out, there's very little you can do except to stay in touch and hopefully he'll recover soon so that you can date him again.

Good Luck!

Answer 3

Odds are that he's interested in someone else and you're old news. You're lucky, you've been in a relationship with a guy who is trying to let you down softly. Be thankful for that.