My boyfriend just found out that he has a daughter and I am worried ...?

Question

I don't know what to do and he was telling me that he hopes it doesn't scare me that I found that he has a daughter, which he just found out he has a daughter too. We've only been dating about a week and already had s*x and now I don't know if I am pregnant or not and I just don't know what to do anymore. I want to talk to him more and just cry and tell him a lot of things... Help me please ?

Answer 1

just tell him how you feel he maybe feeling the same way and just because he has a child does not affect how you feel about him does it ? just set down and talk about it and you both will find out what the other is feeling this will help a lot

if nothing else write it all down and give it to him

Answer 2

i think you should immediately take medical advice, and im sorry to say its time you dropped your boyfreind...cause your life is going to be ruined if you carry on with your affair. I think you understand.

Give a thought to what i said.Take Care

Answer 3

i think its best for me to keep my opinion to myself on this one

Answer 4

so sori you have to go thru that. if it was me, though, ill give my bf some space, like a couple of days or so. im sure hes also getting used to the idea of being a dad, and im not sure he would appreciate you crying and telling him about your own fears.  just let him be for a while. then when you feel like hes ready to talk about it, let him. remember, its mainly his problem, not really yours, so its really HIM who needs the support and the chance to air out.  how you feel about the situation is just secondary. hope you work it out!

Answer 5

Lets turn the tables, why would you even have s*x with him after only being with this person for a week? Dont you have any dignity?

Answer 6

well it is like this that is why we don't have s*x on the first few dates as who knows what he has might have something water will not wash off

then as another child it has happened and he has to take responsibillity for his child

You have only been dating a week don't see why you are crying over his child

But next time be more careful cause remember when you sleep with someone you are not only sleeping with them you are sleeping with everyone they have sleep with so you never know when a STD's will catch up with you

Answer 7

You had s*x with a man you had known for less than a week? He is a stranger. What else hasn't he told you about himself?

He might still be married.

He might be a con man.

He might have a criminal record.

He might be a murderer.

He might be a drug dealer.

Who knows? I know that you don't!