My boyfriend keeps hurting me...but by accident?

Question

I'm 5'1 and he's 6'3.

He keeps hurting me constantly by being such a klutz. He'll accidentally hug me too hard, or step on me or if we're playing around (tickling/wrestling whatever) he'll accidentally hurt my arm or leg or something random.

How can I help him? He just doesn't realize how much stronger/bigger he is than me. && he's so clumsy.

Suggestions

Answer 1

make him read twilight (or explain it to him) and tell him ur bella and he's edward :)

Answer 2

I think you need to sit him down and have this conversation with him. You and him needs to discuss this matter and come to a solution. Whether a person hurts you by mistake or not. It's just not cool.

Answer 3

I know the feeling I am 5"0 and my boyfriend is tall and ,muscly! Just explain to him to be more gentle,remind him frequently, he should then form a habit of not being to rough!

Answer 4

kick him in the nuts and say thats what it feels like so stop hurting me and treat me like a precious princess

Answer 5

Have you read the novel "Of Mice and Men" By John Steinbeck? or seen the Warner Bros Cartoons with the abdominal snowman? The character is mentally challenged person who doesn't know how strong he really is. You can hear him  always saying "I am going to hug him and kiss him" he does it by squeezing the eyeballs or the animal to death. The guy didn't know his own his strength. I would say you need to remind your boyfriend about his strength and remind him to go gentle on you.