My boyfriend left me at the campground alone and didnt even say sorry or take responsibilty for his actions?

Question

We were camping at the Park and had our children with us which they argue sometimes..He doesn't like it that they do this and so it really bothered him so much that the next morning at 730am he went home with his daughter and never contacted me all day to see if I was ok or that he was sorry that he left or what he did was wrong. I feel he should take responsibility for his actions and make up for what he has done,,It really hurt me and now he keeps saying he loves me but if you love someone why would you do that to them and here I was with my kids alone which I would have been ok but had to figure out how I was getting home with loading up the tent trailer with no one to help me.

I just wanted to see what someone else would do if this happened to them...

Answer 1

that's really mean and stupid

Answer 2

I would leave his butt when I got home, that is really a stupid and immature thing to do..

Answer 3

When one party in a relationship starts leaving the other party places I think it's time to call it quits.

Answer 4

the first thing!!~~~you should of done, was to brew some coffee!!  just smell the coffee all alone!!  what else can I tell you?------------------------find somebody else!!  or are you going to be stupid like him??????????  ask yourself!!~~!!

Answer 5

thats sad of him and really mess up because even if yer kids agrue and stuff he left yu and he should at least call and tell you why he left and he doesnt love you because love is a big word and yu should be a strong mother..all that it matters now is yu and yer kid..and settle for more not less...yu will find a great single dad or men who will be resceptful and take resopnisblities..good luck and hope everythinggoes well.

Answer 6

That's wrong. He is very disrespectful to you. Is fighting the only time he does this?

Answer 7

ME?  I'd be livid.  I might forgive him, but I would never forget that he did that, and would not trust him to be around for the next crisis.

if you are sharing space and children, then both parents need to take full responsibility for the situation, and not just their own child.

He left you to pack everything up yourself?  He is a selfish person.  HE loves YOU?  He sure doesn't show the consideration that it would take to maintain a relationship.  Is he divorced?  Is it possible for you to talk to his ex?  I did this once a long time ago and it saved me from marrying someone that I would have regretted marrying.  My situation was a momma's boy... Your's is a selfish un-thinking boy.

I would seriously give this relationship a lot of thought, and would not consider going anywhere with him again.  Was the camping stuff his or yours?  if it was yours, sorry, if it was his, I'd have left it behind.  

How freakin' rude he was!

Answer 8

well...tell him that kids fight...its normal... I don't think it was right just leaving like he did... he shoulda talked to you about it first...not let it get to him that much... Me??? I would talk to him about it... I would tell him how I feel and that he needs to take some responsibility.... let him know the terms... its a relationship...if you just pick up and leave without saying a word... theres no need to be in that relationship...

Answer 9

he was a jerk

Answer 10

very inconsidirate........ you better call it quits!!!!

Answer 11

The guy is whacked and selfish. He is a weak man if he cannot take kids arguing. If he left you at a camp ground, which could have endangered your safety, it shows that he does not hold your safety as one of his priorities. This is dangerous behavior and you should call it quits. I would never do this to my lady.

Answer 12

What a jackass!  If he was fed up with the kids, he could have at least calmly explained he wanted to leave because they were getting to him before he left! If I was you, I'd break it off with this guy.  He doesn't have enough tolerance and is extremely rude.  I don't think these are traits you would want your own children to inherit.  And if he REALLY loved you, wouldn't he have some concern for your well being after he had left you there?

Answer 13

He need a wake up call that he needs to be supportive or the relationship is over.

Answer 14

i think that was very childish and immature of him....how old are you two???