My boyfriend left me but we both stil love each other.

Question

Ok my X and i are still madly in love with each other but i thought i needed time alone to figure things out for my self on like how not to hurt him but i was wrong i can't live with out him but he won't take me back but he is still in love with me idk what to do or say or uhh anthing someone please help

Answer 1

I was once in your situation...I tried to win him back. Then after a while when I feel like I'm really loosing him...I just prayed and asked for His guidance. The truth is...if he comes back to you then he is yours but if he doesn't, then he never will be. Just calm down and pray. Good luck and God bless!

Answer 2

Well, try to get him back an just see what will happen.

Answer 3

Trying to find yourself, taking time out from a relationship etc etc is a positive, however, how did you present this to your ex? And if you needed time, why did he leave you? "Time Outs" are not a bad thing!!

If you sat down with him and explained your feelings and needs then he should understand and give you the time you need. However, if it wasn't presented in a healthy manner, he could be confused and hurt.

I always say ex's are ex's for a reason! However, if you both still love eachother, things WILL work out. I'm a hopeless romantic and I believe love always prevails.

Give it time! Be patient and let him deal with whatever feelings and emotions he may be going through!  He may not even understand them himself! If you push too hard and fast, you will push him away. Allow him time!!!  It's hard when you love someone to sit back and give them time, but any relationship worth having is worth making sacrifices for. He'll come around....

Best of Luck  :)