My boyfriend no longer wants to have s*x with me...

Question

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. He's a little bit older than me. I'm 24 and he's 35. When we first started dating he couldn't keep his hands off of me. He wanted to have s*x every day. Now we have s*x maybe twice a week and it's when I initiate it. He has a hard time getting aroused. When I ask him about it he says he's just financially stressed, or just stressed in general with work. He says that s*x is not on the forefront of his mind right now. He tells me he is still very attracted to me and thinks I'm beautiful. What gives? Could it really be just stress? Or am I missing a big flashing red sign?

Answer 1

there definitely is a red flashing sign there if he can't get it up.  guys are hard wired to be always thinking about it, even when they are stressed.