My boyfriend only comes when hes drunk???

Question

He doesn't normally come. He says he only has a few times EVER (s*x, hand, oral, etc). The other night we were both really drunk and he came....he told me that for some reason he can only really come when hes drunk. Can this be explained?

Answer 1

sounds like for him back at home 1 or both parents instill in him that s*x is dirty/forbitten. and the only way that he can get over this guillty felling is to get drunk.  ask him what he thinks about s*x. if he keeps on drinking to has s*x with you he will become an alcholic

Answer 2

Why would he ONLY come over drunk?here is a reason that he may not be sayingso ask him?Imean what do you have to lose.Also would you Marry a drunk?If it came to that?Just ask him.The only person that can explain this is him.

Answer 3

Maybe the drunkenness has his mind going else where that really turns him on, and can only get that effect when he drinks.

next time , don't get drunk,Make sure you are smelling REAL GOOD! put something, slinky, s**y,and see thru(sheer or lace ) with some s**y high heels, give him an erotic lap dance. pour champagne on him and l**k it off. (make sure you (both)don't drink, and watch what happens, maybe even throw in a s*x movie!

That should do it.

Answer 4

Its mental..he should see a doctor.

Answer 5

usually liquor overcomes whatever inhibitions a person has about s*x......He may be afraid of being totally open to another person...he may think s*x is " dirty " ..he may have emotional issues ...It could be a ton of things going on when he is sober .....But he is wasting a good experience in life ..and he's probably depriving you of a healthier s*x life, too.....He needs to talk about this with someone who can help him.