My boyfriend only wants s*x once a week?

Question

i try everything to get it more.. but im always initiating.. we had a baby four months ago and the baby sleeps all night now so i was hoping things would get closer to normal..... im sick of initiating all the time.. what do i do

Answer 1

First thing you need to do is stop initiating! If he thinks you dont want any s*x he'll want it more.

You Should be happy you have s*x once a week. I only have it about once every 2 months.

Answer 2

If everything else in your relationship is good then let it ride. s*x is not the be all and end all. Get a vibrator if your sexual needs are greater than his.

Answer 3

So talk to him about it. He can't read your mind. You need to find out why his desire is lower than yours...or lower than it used to be. You weren't clear on whether or not the current situation is the norm, or just occured since the pregnancy.

Answer 4

I know some men (especially those who witnessed a vaginal birth) begin to think of their partners bodies as almost functional and utilitarian compared to being used for pleasure. You may want to ask your boyfriend about that.

Sitting down and having a talk with him would be the best thing to do. He won't know you're displeased with your s*x life if you don't tell him.

Answer 5

Talk to him about it, maybe he's holding back because he doesn't want to push you too hard after the baby (men seem to think we're so fragile and especially after a baby)

Or it could be other reasons, even stress so ask him in a calm , casual way and don't push him to talk or give answers. he might not even be aware of what he's doing anyway and talking will jolt his brain back to the s**y you right there by his side.

All the best.

Answer 6

Take control! Push his butt to the bed and rip his clothes off and start doing things to him. If i wasn't in the mood that would surely get me goin.