My boyfriend put his best friend and his hobby before me on his top friends on myspace?

Question

i feel like im competing with his best friend and his hobby. i know its a dumb reason to be upset with alot of people, but it really hurts. i have him on my top at #1 (we've been together for 2 months) and i feel like im third place to him you know? if i was 2nd to his hobby i wouldnt be making such a big deal about it because i know how devoted he is to it but to have another GIRL (his bff) on his top as number one bestfriend or not makes me really upset. his bff doesnt even like me and talks a ton of c**p about me to him (ive never even met her!) so how do you think that would make a person feel? i dont want to talk to him about it because i feel like i would just be bitching over something and i dont want to be that girl. but if anyone could give me some advice that would be great, is it okay for your boyfriend or girlfriend to have their bestfriend on their #1 instead of you?

Answer 1

yeah...get over it  

Answer 2

why don't you make him jealous too? put him third and put a guy friend second, then on top put your hobby, and if he asks, tell him that you realized, w/o ur hobby, ur nothing

just to be fair

Answer 3

Well if his so called bf is talking **** about you confront her. tell that we've never met so there is no reason for her to be talking smack about you. say i haven't known you but you don't see me going around and saying stuff. you would Love it for u 2 to be friends. and you have 2 talk to ur boyfriend you have to have to have to, i can sense it eating you up so tell him im not bitching I'm just saying wats on my mind and it really is eating me up. DO NOT ASK HIM TO CHOOSE and be polite to his friend when you talking to her. In my eyes she is a real B****

Answer 4

Yes.a best friend is more important than a gf or bf and besides its myspace who cares

Answer 5

u've only been together for two months. don't get psycho and push him away. in time you will be #1 on his top friends...

Answer 6

I probably have had my sister before a boyfriend a few times.

But honestly, one of my boyfriends didn't even have me in his top and as silly as it may sound to some people...i was upset cause it makes me feel like he's embarrassed of me. So i took him off mine and he asked about it and i told him why. Put your two best friends in front of him and see his reaction.  

Answer 7

..........so?

How old are we now? 12??

Yea thats what I thought

Answer 8

Slow down it's only been two months.

I'm sure he has been friends with his best friend longer

and he must have a passion with his hobby.

Yet again it has only be two months give it some time.

Answer 9

You're fighting a wrong battle. Pick something more important than this.

Being clingy and needy can get you removed from his Myspace page and his life. Is it worth it?

Answer 10

it's myspace, MYSPACE.

why do people get upset about things on myspace, like when they are dating someone but their site says they are single, it is coz people just dont update their sites, i dont update mine and so it still says i'm a real estate agent though i'm not anymore.

just ignore it, dont worry about it, get over it, its myspace.

Also, you've been going out for 2 months, that isnt exactly serious. How long has he had this best friend and this hobby, i'm guessing a h**l of a lot longer than 2 months.

Answer 11

typical boy ..life goes on.. awnser mine http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?...