My boyfriend says he doesn't love me anymore?

Question

My boyfriend told me he doesn't love me anymore and he just wants to be himself for a little while. Than I snooped through his computer and found he is bi sexual and is logging onto singles sites for "casual fun" he has even began acting strange and can't explain why he doesn't love me... what should I do because this hurts so much and he doesn't care

Answer 1

If I were you, I'd get checked for VD.  Who knows how long he has been having "casual fun."  And be glad to be rid of him.  He has a dark, secretive side.  Why would YOU want to be with him?

Answer 2

thats so horrible! im sorry.

i honestly think he is confused about his s*x. he may be experimenting to feel what feels right and natural to him (i.e. the bisexual sites). give him some time but dont stop contact with him, dont push him either.

Answer 3

wow, thats hard :(

the best you can do is just, hang on,

or move on, even if it hurts.

he'll regret giving u away one day

Answer 4

Ohhhhh, ya bad situation to be into. My advice. . . . walk away. Don't even bother with him. I mean it just means hes not for you, and that you deserve ALOT better. Well now you know, he's not the, "one". Get well. And, don't do anything dangerous if you feel unloved, just try and get over it. :) Hope a little of this helped.  

Answer 5

i don't think he meant it, he's just trying to find himself. he might be feeling if he's attracted to men and women. support him and help him find what he needs. he's going through really tough choices because he doesn't know his gender and what path to choose at the moment so its your time to support him and help him make those choices...

hang in there, you'll do fine

;D