My boyfriend told me that his p***s got errect one night while laying next to his daughter..?

Question

he told me that he could feel how much she loved him and became errect, is this normal?? i was distrubed when he said this..and lied about a story that this had happened to me with my father as a child to make him feel comfortable and give me more details..i was kind of jealous, but, more so concerned...can any one help me? i'm on the verge of breaking up with him because of this...this is his adaughter from a previous relationship and she's 4...what do you think?

Answer 1

report this to the police. but get the truth first. and dont tell cops if your not sure. talk to his famaily. just look out for the kid

Answer 2

turn him in because you dont want anything bad to happen to the 4 year old do you? How sad and disgusting!!! That little girl needs to be put in a home where she wont get taken advantage of. She may love him and he may love her but if that happens that is seriously a very scary thing. Get that child out of that house maybe back with the mom, if she is fit otherwise contact someone in his family and see what they say? If they think your crazy go to someone higher up.  

Answer 3

Go to the police and tell them what he said to you.If you don't and he rapes his own child sick bast***And how many more children did he rape he's a sicko, Now you in on it and will if you don't go to the police will be charged along with him.You now are joined with him in a crime and just by telling you,You to will go to jail if you don't report him to the POLICE !

NOW THEY KNOW WHO YOU ARE! FOR THE SET POLICE UP HERE TO CATCH THINGS LIKE THIS.    THIS IS A CRIME REPORT AT ONCE.  

Answer 4

that's one sick b*****d!

Answer 5

That is gross why would he tell you about that? eww.

you should tell him that..thats not normal and you think he needs help.

Answer 6

shes 4 you need to tell her mother before she is touched or raped it will ruin her sexual behavior and ruin her relastionships of the future

Answer 7

Jealous? You both need mental help.

Answer 8

um........... st least he confessed this to u..

Answer 9

OMG!   Ok, listen.  How old are you?   How old is your bf?   Not that it matters, but I would like to know.

Now, a mans p***s becomes errect when he gets aroused.  The fact that he told you he became erect while laying next to his daughter meant he at some point felt sexual feelings laying next to his daughter.   He is a very sick and twisted man.   I am thinking is probably molested her already.   What did he mean by he could tell how much she loved him???   Was he making her do something to him.   Sweety, listen, you know by law especially in the US  you are mandated by law to report any SUSPECTED abuse.   You dont have to be sure, all you have to do is suspect it.   This is NOT normal.  Can you imagine if Dads became sexually aroused to their daughters?   This is the mind of a pedophile.   If you can, find some alone time with the girl, get her to confide in you.    Speak to her mother please, you could be saving this little girl from a life of h**l.   This man is sick.

If you should need advice or want to speak with me further, you can email me.

EDIT:  I see some people have told you to go to the police, however, an actual crime has not been commited, or at least you dont know of it, which is why I told you to question her, and speak to the mother.  However, if you or the mom contact child services, they can get help for the girl, get some counseling.   Maybe nothing has happened...YET, but this girl is in real danger.   I really suggest you find ways of talking to the four year old about good touches and bad touches..like someone mentioned before, and see what she replies.  Also, please, get in contact with the mother.  Like I said before this is NOT normal.

Answer 10

tell him to talk with a family counselor....... he's got critical problem  

Answer 11

Run, get away from this jerk. Why is he "laying" with his 4 year old daughter? Why would he tell you this? This is trouble, get away from him as soon as you can.  

Answer 12

You're jealous of a four year old whose father got an erection while laying next to her?  This little girl is in danger-that's what you should be thinking about.  

Answer 13

rape

Answer 14

GET OUT OF THE RELTIIONSHIP!

and honestly, you might want to be careful he could be a child mulseter (sorry about the spelling)

the love of your daughter is a TOTALLY different feeling then if your feeling love towards a woman and have passion towards her.

he is sick!

Answer 15

i think you should leave him it sounds like he has issues, no offense

Answer 16

Break up with him, those feelings will soon lead to him raping the poor girl, then it will lead onto somebody else. He needs help.

You have to tell somebody, not just forget about it, think about his daughter, if it carries on untill she is at an age when she can remember him like that, it will seriously mess her up.

Answer 17

Well i am a woman but this seems serious.

That does not sound normal at all. I would not continue dating him, but you may also need to be concerned about the daughter. and look at signs of sexual abuse. That seem very serious.

http://www.cfchildren.org/issues/abuse/s...

Answer 18

Oh my god, insest.

Answer 19

i seriously do not believe this is normal. A father should not be getting horny with his daughter no mattter how much they love each other. There love should be a father daughteer love, it is nothing like love in a relationship. I would be careful with him, one day he may just be super horny and take advantage of his daughter as she doesnt really know right from wrong yet( and doesnt know about s*x. So just keep an eye on him

Answer 20

thats nasty

Answer 21

i know about mothers breastfeeding and getting arouse, which is medically normal.  But idk about this one.  u may need a medical psychologist for this

Answer 22

What about the child's mother?  If you are the only female influence in her life, i would talk to her about inappropriate touching and if anyone ever touches her in her private parts to tell an adult even if they told her not too!

Answer 23

omg!!! petefile!!! insest!! rapist!! get away from him and report his ***!  that is not normal Seriously before something happens to that little girl or someone eles child!

Answer 24

i feel that if he told you about this incident it was because he was scared of himself maybe he knows its not normal and wants help or needs to know that its normal so he doesnt feel weird about himself. i think u need 2 talk to him and let him know it is soooooooo NOT  okay and NOT normal but your there to help him. n the mean time jus take a brake from ther relationship until he can figure out y that happened. go seek therapy with him. stop this before it gets worse. there is a 4 yr. old girl at risk and u cant walk out now knowing this. i hope everything works out for u and for him.

Answer 25

ummm that child is in danger, stop being so selfish  

Answer 26

I think you should be very very concerned.  Its not just about your relationship with him, there is a young child's life attached to this.

When you were talking to him, did you see any indication that he would act on his erection should it ever happen again?

What were his previous relationships like?  Do you know why he broke up with his exes?

Does anyone else live at his home?  Is there anyone available who could help and protect the girl should anything happen?

Are you close to any of his family members?  If so, TELL them.  They may be in a better position to help/act than you.

Consider getting a professional opinion about the risk of him acting on his desire, the professional would ask for more details to make an accurate assessment.  As long as you don't mention any names, relationships, etc. and keep it hypothetical, than the professional will not be forced to take action.  (If you tell a counselor, etc. something which makes them think a life is in danger, they are required by law to report it.)

A father receiving an erection from a daughter is by no means normal or acceptable, he should NOT be aroused by a four year old daughter.  It can be an indicator of pedophilia.  Do you know if he watches p**n?  If so, find out if any of it involves children,  

Situations like this require one to think of more than themselves.  They are hard to deal with, and I truly do understand your confusion.  Feel free to e-mail me at any time if you have any other queries.