My boyfriend wants me prego!?

Question

my bf really wants me to get pregnant,

and I'm only 16. He keeps telling me that we can make it,

and that I'd look cute pregnant. I dont WANT a baby,

but I really do think Im in love with this guy.

Him telling me this every day gets so annoying,

What should I say to make him stop?

Is it normal for guys to want this?

Answer 1

your boyfriend is crazy if he want's you pregnant at age 16 i mean your still going to school and if you have a baby you might not get to do all the things you wanted to do in life because you have a baby to take care of, your boyfriend is retarded no joke, if he loves you that much he will be patient and wait!

Answer 2

Is he a bit controlling? Or does he become easily jealous? He seems like that type from what you are telling us here, wanting you to be pregnant so bad indicates to me that he is desperate to be tied to you forever. That by you becoming pregnant he feels like you will be his forever, that is very odd behavior for a teenage boy. Please don't let him pressure you into anything like that, he doesn't want it for the right reasons. I know  you say you love him, but if he is acting like this you may want to re-evaluate your relationship.

Hope this helps you

Answer 3

Please dont get pregnant if your not ready!!

I was totally ready to get pregnant and its been a nightmare!!! I got so sick in my first trimester ... my b*****s are leaking ... I can hardly walk... I have contractions and I feel soooo much pressure ...

Dont get me wrong I know it will be worth it ... having a child is sooo beautiful but the pregnancy part is a b*tch!!

If he loves you he will wait for you to be ready ... and if he really wants a child and he cares about the child he would at least hint on marrying you to bring a baby into a family and not leave it up in the air where if he cant take it any more he can walk out at any time ...

Be cautious and dont do something that you are not ready for just to "keep" him ... Thank about this:

The more means we use to keep them close, the quicker they will abandon us.

Answer 4

Tell him that you will look very cute pregnant when you are both old enough and stable enough to be parents. If he is in love with you then he will have no problem enjoying your time together now and waiting until the right time to have a baby. Tell him to knock it off and stop bugging you about such a ridicules idea and DONT have s*x with him unless you are on birth control. If he is that desperate he may try to sabotage a condom. I dont think he is normal at all.  

Answer 5

Tell him your not ready, and when you are you'll tell him. Or, you could by a fake pregnancy suit thing and see how he likes it :)

lol.

Answer 6

just tell him to shut up

Answer 7

Do not have a baby.  I am a teacher, do you know that children born to mothers under the age of 21 are considered children a risk?  You are too young to be having s*x.  He sounds very immature anyone that does not understand the amount of work a baby is, is too young to have one.  You need to tell him that if he respects you and any future children he will wait until you are old enough, say 23 and married.  He needs to be in a position to support you and a baby before he makes one.

Answer 8

No, it isn't normal...

Answer 9

You need to wake up and smell the roses, something is not right!

1. Its unsual for somone this young to what the comitment of child. He is not considering the consqeunces of chilren. You look good pregnant?! That is NO reason for having children. It wouldnt sound so sweet if he thought about the S****y diapears and staying up for a crying baby at 3 am.

2.He pressures you into it everyday even when you tell him that is NOT what you want? He does not truly care about you if this is the case. No one who loves you would push you into anything your not ready to do. You go up to to him and tell him either he gets the idea that its not happening or its over. You deserve respect and he is not giving that to you.

Answer 10

just tell him that you don't want a child right now. try to explain it the best you can. be throe about it cause some guys just dont get it sometimes. lol  

Answer 11

dont do it! dont give in!!!!!! tell him how you feel! even if you did want one, its too early!!  tell him that u will have a baby when ur married- maybe. this guy doesnt seem right, telling u would look cute pregnant. seems like he doesnt rlly like u and is using u 4 u no what. he doesnt look out for ur feelings. but talk 2 him about it. good luck

PS- its not normal, he must be some sort of creep, trust me

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Answer 12

Not normal...dump him. Seriously, he's just going to keep saying it until you say it's okay. You don't want to take the risk of actually getting pregnant and him deciding that he doesn't want a baby.

Answer 13

My fiance is the same as your boyfriend.  He loves kids, and would have an entire soccer team if he could afford to *laughs*.

Don't let your boyfriend pressure you; a baby is a lifetime commitment, you need to make sure you're totally ready to be a mother, and be a parent (no easy job).

If I were you, I'd tell your boyfriend that you aren't ready, but, at some point in the future (your mid-late 20s or so) you might be.

If he keeps pressuring you, tell him to go and visit a friend (or someone you know) with a newborn baby for a few weeks.  Make him stay there and help care for the child.  This should wake him up to the realities.

good luck!

Answer 14

Trust your gut...If your not ready PLEASE dont let anyone convince you otherwise.  If you tell him know and stick to your guns you will be happier then if get pregnant for a boy.  You are young love changes! Wait til YOU are ready, and I can promise you from experience (i started raising my niece when I was 13 til I was 18) at 16 your not ready you have a life to live honey.  I have nothing against young moms (My sis was 14 when she got pregnant), but if you can help and prevent it then do so!

Answer 15

U should tell him it takes to to make a baby not one and i'm only 16 i'm not ready yet

Answer 16

Try explaining to him how you feel and how much more you want to experience in life before having children. If you're not on it already, try birth control just to resist the temptation of giving in. If he can't understand that you're not ready, perhaps you should look elsewhere for a boyfriend.

Answer 17

get pregnant  

Answer 18

Don't. If you aren't ready don't do it just for some guy. get on bc asap.  

Answer 19

That is really... strange...

Tell him that unless he wants to have that baby himself he can f*** off. You are sixteen, you don't want to be pregnant (good!), and he's nuts for pressuring you about this.

If he doesn't stop getting on to you about this, tell him you will break up with him, and then do it if that doesn't stop him. It doesn't matter if you love him; you will find someone else young as you are, and perhaps someone who cares enough about you to listen when you say no.

Answer 20

Omg you probably have the most dangerous type of bf imaginable the manipulating way too devoted bf . He is probably trying to make you have a baby to trap you in this relationship ! I personally would run bc i would be scared he is poking holes in the condoms  . The fact that he is forever pressuring you is a huge red flag ! I know you are in love with this guy who probably is sweet but this is a red flag listen to your heart bc something sounds fishy . Its not normal ,,, wayyyyyyyy not normal he is being a big idiot to think at 16 you guys can raise a child . You need to confront him that under NO circumstances you will have a kid with him . Get to the bottom of this before you are stuck as a single mother with no education and a demanding kid that father is so flaky he doesnt come around !!

Good luck ,, sorry to put it so bluntly but RUN run now your young be young ! Dont let this guys stupid shortsighted plans ruin your life ! One day when you finish school and get your stuff together and are still together with him have a dozen kids if you want !

But not now

you will regret it

...

Izzie  

Answer 21

Sit him down, look him in the eyes and say, " I'm not ready to have a baby and I don't want one. Why can't we wait?" I mean you're only in high school and I'm glad that you see that. If he keeps pressuring you it's time to find a new boyfriend. I hope this helps. Good luck.

Answer 22

If he doesn't accept that you don't want a baby, then he DOESN'T love you - he just wants to control you. Getting you pregnant means he can treat you however and you'll probably stay with him for the baby.

Get on BC  and I think you need to talk to him. Tell him there is NO WAY you're having a baby now and that's not going to change. If he wants to knock someone up this badly, you have to break up with him. It is definitely not normal.

If he isn't mature enough to realize that you are too young, he doesn't deserve you and he shouldn't be having s*x.

Answer 23

Him wanting to get you pregnant at sixteen shows that he obviously isn't respecting what you may want out of the future that a teenage pregnancy could prevent. You need to give this guy an ultimatum and if he really cares about you he will respect your decision and stop pressuring you. There will be plenty of time for babies later in life when you are settled but you need to enjoy these years of freedom now while you have them! Just be young and have fun! Don't let anyone take that away from you!

Answer 24

You need to tell him that you'll be happy to have his baby--when the time is right for YOU! The best thing to do is to wait until you have finished school, have a job, and all that kind of good stuff. Being responsible for a person for 18 years is pretty heavy stuff. If he takes off, you'll be the one with the baby. Let him know that you are serious and will not back down. Personally, I'd tell him that he's lost his mind. Stay strong and good luck.

Answer 25

h**l nah do not do it, youre too young say no and if he doesnt get it tell him to kiss you *** and bounce

Answer 26

Thats not normal.

Answer 27

I had a BF at your age that wanted me to get pregnant too... I'm so glad I didn't. If you re not ready then you re not ready.  Looking cute pregnant is not a good enough reason to get pregnant.  I know you really might love him but at least wait until after high school. Do you know how hard it will be to finish school with a baby!!! I'm 22 and pregnant... Its still hard for me right now and I waited. Its alot of emotional changes that a 16 year old doesn't need to go through. You have enough to worry about right now!