My boyfriend wants me to grow out my arm pit, leg and arm hair???

Question

Umm ... ok we've been dating for a year now, I'm 20 and he is 21 and we are both in college he said he doesnt want me to shave ... why??

I am a beautiful girl, I get a lot of attention and I think this would be a little shocking to people especially if I am wearing a skirt or short sleeve. My boyfriend has been concerned before if I was cheating but I am a faithful girl to him, I love him and he loves me I just can't figure out why he would want me to do that??

He said I am beautiful no matter what hair I have or with out any make up and I know he means it, he's told me before he loves me more than himself and he wants to one day start a family with me one day.

Isn't this really unattractive though? Does he think that me not waxing or shaving will somehow help to keep the guys more at bay? I don't like thinking that but that was the only explanation I could think of ...... unless he's just a guy who likes some hair on his woman HAHAHA

Help please. Thanks!

Answer 1

dont do it

Answer 2

sounds like your relathionship has bigger concerns than just hair. He thinks you are cheating and you're not..some major trust (or lack of) issues going on,.

Answer 3

umm thats really gross.. arm hair is ok but ARMPIT? FOR REAL? what does he have like a hair fetish?

Answer 4

tell him if he wants to be with a hairy guy he should go find a guy . It's not his right to ask you to do anything with your body that you don't want too.

Answer 5

If it's not because he has a hair fetish (a secret one?) the only things I can think of are:

- he's trying to make you less attractive to others due to a cheating fear

- he's trying to show you that he likes you for more than just your looks and doesn't care if you shave or not

- he doesn't like the stubble that comes with shaving

I know a lot of guys actually don't care/notice if their girlfriend doesn't shave often, but for him to actually request it seems a bit unusual.

The best thing to do is to ask him!

Harriet

Answer 6

he wants you to grow your hair out cause it is really unattractive an he thinks if you  do that then no guys will go near you if i was you i would ask him why cause it sounds like he playing mind games with you  

Answer 7

DONT DO IT!!!! thats just sick eww if he loves u he wont mind if u do shave or wax...  

Answer 8

He is the one with the problem. He is very insecure. He will cause you a lot of grief. Love isn't always enough.

Answer 9

maybe he wants the guys NOT to like you because you don't shave or anything.

you should tell him what you really think, he has no contorl over what you can or cannot do and he should trust you

going off to college is probably making him extra worried cause theres a ton of guys there and alot of couples break up when they go off to college  

Answer 10

Sounds like a creeper to me.

Maybe hes just trying to test whether or not your loyal to him ,

however either way just do what you want.

Answer 11

Sounds like it.  That he's a guy that wants a natural woman.