My boyfriend is in medical school, and really likes and admires scientific research. Today he mentioned that he plans to donate his body to research after he dies. I am very bothered by this thought.
I plan on donating my organs to those who need transplants, and I don't mind his doing the same. What upsets me is to imagine the body I made love to all our lives, the arms that held me, the lips that kissed me, being laid bare for a group of gawking med students to poke, prod, and slice.
I understand that science needs human cadavers in order to further learning, but I can't stand the thought of that being his body. He insists that after he's dead, his soul is gone so the body doesn't matter, but if I'm still alive after he's gone, I think it would just be upsetting to know that that's what's going on.
Am I wrong to be upset by this? He has agreed to just donate his organs, but I feel like I'm taking something away from him. Shouldn't he be more concerned about comforting me when he's gone than contriguting to science?
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