My boyfriend wants to get married cos his in spain and im in ***. why? where did i go wrong, pls tell me.?

Question

we have beeen dating for years now and we do communicate very well. he has been in spain for seven years now. not until last week when i told him i want to go and see his mum and he agreed that i shld go . some days later he maied me and said that i shld stop calling him that he has found someone else and he will be getting married to her very soon. i was shocked, and the followin the i was hospitalised for fours days. he stays in spain and i stay here in ***.is it becos he was there and i was here? or what could the problem be that makes him hates me so much. i now understand why some girls sleep around and not faithfull or submissive to their man. pls, i need ur adviced. this was a guy we been through so many problems and i stood by him before he travelled to spain. im still in nigeria .pls help me before i do something stupid cos i love this guy. thanx

Answer 1

Forget him lady.

He is a complete loser.

But remember, not all men are like that.

You may love him, but he doesn't love you.

Move on with your life, there are better men for you out there.

Answer 2

You are wasting your time and life with this jerk. Be glad that is it over. How can you say he hates you when obviously he never loved you!

Answer 3

The best thing to do is move on, because you have not seen him for seven years. Try and find the one that is close to you. Maybe they are waiting for you to show a sign that you are single.