My boyfriend wants to handcuff me lol?

Question

So, my boyfriend is a police officer, and just last night he asked me if it was okay if he could handcuff me during bed. lol.

I've never done anything kinky before, but I was willing to try anything with him because I love him. But I was thinking about the pink fluffy hanfcuffs that you see at Spencer's but he said he wanted to use the ones he uses at work, as in the real handcuffs for criminals and stuff.

Should I let him? I guess you could say I'm kind of uncomfortable with real handcuffs, even though I trust him... it's just that I don't like it. Should I tell him or would that embarress him?

Answer 1

Go for it Belle!!!   Have some fun....

Answer 2

If you don't like the idea, then, No, definitely not, because a scary/awkward/freakout s*x moment can serious injure even a good relationship.  If you want to give it a go, I suggest making up (beforehand) a code word meaning "Stop".  something you wouldn't normally say during, you know, your usual romp.  

If you don't want to, don't be too worried about embarrassing him, just don't be cruel about it, maybe tell him exactly that.  You're uncomfortable with the idea, maybe later.

  Good luck and have fun!

Answer 3

Let him do it, but tell him to make sure that they are lose. I'm sure it will drive him CRAZY!!

Answer 4

be honest with him.. u can tell him that you dont like it coz ur not comfortable.

if he still insist of using the real ones, tell him that you could use those fluffy cuffs at first and when you get used to it, then maybe you could use the real ones later on. ;)