My boyfriend wants to have threesome two males one felmale me?

Question

i told him i am not sure .the truth is that i want to but i am afraidof telling him yes cause what he might think of me for actually wanting to.

Answer 1

Lucky you!!!

Answer 2

Tell him it sounds good, but does he have anything he wants  you to stick to like not kissing the other guy! Have fun!

Answer 3

You're a pig and so is your boyfriend.  Go for it.

Answer 4

can I go too?...lol

Answer 5

Be honest with him totally honest, there is no room for games in this type of arena. If this is something you want to do then go for it but be sure to set guidelines and not cross them.

Ginni

Answer 6

Do what you heart favors! I don't think it none wrong :)

Answer 7

We have had a few mfm threesome and can speak from experience. Threesomes requires assertive and honest communication. If you are interested in the idea let your husband know. However word in such a way it communicates to him that it is an idea you are willing to consider but you are not yet committed to the idea.

Once you have done that then engage in what the threesome would be like? What would the boundaries be? How would you find the person? From there engage with him about your feelings and how you see it. As you discuss it then it will become clearer if it will happen or not.

Main thing to remember throughout this is there is a long distance from talking about the idea to actually having one. Having a threesome requires a lot of communication and the ability to agree on the idea. Just because you talk about it does not necessarily mean it will happen. Best thing to do is take it slow and take it in segments. From there it should be come clearer in which direction the two of you are heading.

Answer 8

listen to me dont do just a stupid he clearly does not care about you and you guys will never last. i dont think any selfrespecting man will ever go out with someone if they know their Girlfriend has had a 3some. ive been together with my Gf for 1year now and i love a dearly, i would take a bullet for her but if i ever find out she has done something like that i would leave her immediately. dont be a w***e  

Answer 9

What are you afraid of, he might think you are S****y?  The fact is that if he is open-minded enough, and unselfish enough to want this (because MFM threesomes are all about the F) than that is the last thing he'd ever think of you. The idea of you being a wild, sexual woman is a huge turn-on for him and he's secure enough in himself, in you, and in your relationship to not be threatened by you exploring that side of yourself and your sexuality.

Be glad you have such a guy in your life. Most guys are to insecure to be like him.

Answer 10

I would think that this is one of those questions there you don't ask if you can't handle the answer, so if you want to go along with it then give him the answer you want. just be ready for his reaction and the possibility that he wont handle the situation well after it gets started.