My boyfriend was gone to Europe for 3 month visiting, I found his trip difficult to handle. ?

Question

He had great time there, now that he is back he complains about everything in Canada and it depresses me. I told him should move back to Europe if he likes is so much better. He did not seem to miss me and I feel very insecure in the relationship with his constant complaining. I feel like I am not enough to make his life happy. He is like a dark cloud.

Answer 1

If your boyfriend complains all the time, you feel insecure in the relationship and he's "like a dark cloud", why are you still in there?  If he finds Europe so much better, what is stopping him from going there permanently?

Answer 2

Wow....I can see why you feel that way.  If I were in your shoes I would back off.  Now I don't mean leave him I mean give him space.

Let him do his moping(rolling my eyes) all alone.  Spend time with friends, or go shopping, library, etc.......  Act happy even though you are hurting. Don't complain about his complaining.  IGNORE his complaining or at least pretend to ignore it.

This will show him that you are secure with or without him.  He may realize he likes you around.  He is on a high from his vacation and now he is back to the old grind.  

If he decides to move and not invite you to come with him then LEAVE HIM HIGH AND DRY (jerk)

I hope this all works out!! Good Luck

Answer 3

He must of really enjoyed it in Europe.  If he's being hard to deal with, move on.  He'll probably go back to Europe anyways and leave you behind.

Answer 4

Well, I felt similar when I visited Germany and everything was so green and clean, but when I got home I had to realize that they have their own problems too.