My boyfriend works really long hours should i maybe once and awhile clean the house and make him supper,

Question

and even once in a while show efection, like i appreciate it, and not be so moody, i no im pregnant but its to hard to care about him, am i a bad person??

Answer 1

YES! show him you appreciate the things he's doing to you i bet he'll do the same back

Answer 2

No, but it would be a nice gesture

Answer 3

if ur pregnant, this does not make u a bad person, but i think u should clean and make his favorite meal for him soon! guys love this stuff! dont turn into his maid or anything, but he is trying really hard for u and the baby, and im sure he would love to come home and see his favorite meal with some candles, and then just relax and watch his favorite movie.. his long hrs. show that he cares, now u show him u do... " love is a verb"  

Answer 4

ur NOT a bad person !!!

u should clean the house every once in a while and u should make him supper when he gets home from work and if he gets home later then give him a note that said u were thinking about him and theres supper for him

Answer 5

Just in the future when you have your child and he's not doing any of the work leaving you to do all the cleaning, working, cooking, etc. don't complain about a thing and you should be fine.... of course you should!  Pregnancy is not an excuse to do nothing for 9 months!  You should be preparing to be a mother, and by letting your husband/boyfriend do all the work your just being incompetent.

Also no you are not a bad person, but you are very selfish.  

Answer 6

yes, regardless of being pregnant you still have to act like a normal functioning human being!  How incredibly rude and selfish/ self consumed are you?  I wouldn't be surprised if the guy didn't come home one day based on how you described yourself

Answer 7

u serious...u should always be makin him supper and and cleanin up ur the women and especially if he works a lot

Answer 8

you should be doing that s**t everyday.. thats your job as a women

Answer 9

youre not a bad person.

you should clean the house and make him supper though :D

that would be sweet of you!

congrats on the baby!

Answer 10

YES THAT WOULD BE COOL

Answer 11

just cause you're pregnant doesnt mean you cant do anything... if he's paying for you to live and you're not doing anything back consider yourself lucky... or your man stupid... i know i wouldnt see a selfish woman.

Answer 12

you should act like you should. yea you should clean the house and make him supper. that's a good idea

Answer 13

idk maybe if you feel up to it

Answer 14

With all of the attention and affection you are getting being pregnant, it might be nice to show him some. He might be feeling overwhelmed with the new baby and left out. Make him a romantic dinner surprise him when he gets home, let him knwo that just because baby makes 3 be sure he knows that there will still be time for the two of you.

TRUST.

that once the baby comes, alone time, dinner, s*x, sleep will be in very very short supply.

I surprised my husband more than once by not only cooking him dinner but I a couple of times did the yard work while he was at work (I while pregnant) so he did not have to do it and could relax on his day off.  He would never ever even ask me to do that, not even before i was pregnant.