I have been dating a man for 2 years. He is older than me by 20 years. He has two children that adore me(one is 13 and the other 16). The issue is that my b/f past with his 2nd wife was not good. They were on meth. His children at one point felt as if meth came before they did. Since I have dated this man I have helped him re-kindle the relationship he once had with his children. I can understand his 1st wife's concerns about the "enviorment" that her children will be placed in because of the past problems, but I am not a user. I drink beer, but I would never even do that in front of his kids. My boyfriend has been clean for 3 years. He was not using when we met...I wouldn't be w/ him if he had been. His first wife seems to like me, she know that I am a decent person. What can I say or do to put her at ease about letting the children come to my house and stay over? The kids want to, but she always has an excuse or she will make a fun family outing last minute to keep their minds off wanting to come to dad's. Help me...I'm tired of watching my boyfriend hurt now for the mistakes he has made in his past.
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