My boyfriends best friend being an a*****e to me?

Question

So last night I went out with some friends and my bf is out of town so he wasnt there. His best friend was there and he kept slapping my face...at first I thought you know w/e he is just messing around but then he kept doing it til I slapped him back after like the 5th time and he finally stopped. Then he later called me an idiot so I snapped on him. I told my bf about it today and he was mad but not REALLY mad to where he hung up the phone and called him. He said he would say something to him later. And he didnt wanna get into a fight with him. But I am mad that he wasnt furious about it. I dont want to hang out with his friend ever again obviously...what do I say to my bf?

Answer 1

Why didn't you call the cops and press charges against this guy? He needs to be behind bars! You should also dump the boyfriend for not being caring enough.

Answer 2

Just tell him, that if he isn't going to handle the situation the way it needs to be handled, then you don't want to be around his friend anymore.  I personally, would break up with him for not doing anything about it.  The stupid jerk slapped you in the face?!  I'd knock his teeth out.  Maybe his best friend is immature and has a little bit of a crush on you.  It seems a little weird to act that way, but stupid boys used to act that way in elementary school when they had a crush on someone.  Either way, you need to let your bf know that you don't want to be around him anymore if he can't be nice to you.

Answer 3

and this is the first warning of a possible rapist wanting to take you away...

Answer 4

he thinks of you that you're his best friend's property and apparently he's the abusive type, so he's taking advantage of you because he thinks that he and your bf are one, so if your bf is gona get a take, he will too.

Tell your bf that his friend has boundaries, if he trespasses them and he your bf wont do anything about it, thats just like saying any guy on the street will hurt you and your bf wont do anything about it and that itself is jeopardizing your relationship.

Answer 5

tell him he needs to kick his friends ***. jk jk jk hmmm.. well tell your boyfriend that you dont ever want to be around this dude. and that if that guy ever does anything to you that your going to call the cops are something. make him scared. =D

Answer 6

Just tell him if he won't talk to this guy, then you don't want to be with him, or be around the guy.