My boyfriends mom has a completely other side to her than I knew.?

Question

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...... Me and my boyfriend have been dating about a year and a half..... Everything was going great... Still is... except his mom. She is a one of a kind... I love his dad and the rest of the family and friends... Him and his mom have not been that close since I have known him... His mom always seemed nice.... I would always hang out with her.. with the family...... now she is like dump her blah blah blah...... But we are a happy couple.. We have our arguments like any couple... I am 19 he's 18.......... we all go to the same church. blah blah blah........ she actually kinda in mature.. like in sunday school... yes she is out sunday school teacher also... there is this girl that is like 15 years old... and she is stuck up the little girls butt like trying to be friends with her and she even had the nerve to tell my b/f he should date her... I dont understand why all of a sudden she hates me.... his dad sometimes even tells her that shes being rude..... I dont know how to be around her it gets kinda awarkd... I try to talk sometimes but now it's at the point where im justl like watever.. and I dont want my b/f to be in the middle..... any suggestions..... ????? Thanks in advance

Answer 1

she a mom afraid of losing her baby.  I'm not saying shes right but shes just scared.  she also might not like some of your morals or the way you do things.  I've had moms turn on me in a heartbeat.  As a matter of fact me and my mother in law use to get into it everytime we saw eachother, but since shes seen how much i do love her son we are best friends.

Answer 2

Be cordial to her and kill her with kindness.  She is his mother.  You're making the right decision by not putting him in the middle.

Answer 3

Yes all woman have a completely different side to them . As and older guy i know that . Been dealing with them for years now.

Answer 4

may be, just may be, she doesn't like being around a immature girl any more that can only say " blah, blah, blah"?

If you heard her say that about her son should date a 15 year old, may be you should of pointed out the new laws and underage girls.

Answer 5

I think she's realizing that things are serious between the two of you and she's afraid of losing her son. It happens. Some moms, regardless if they're close to their children or not, don't like having someone else take their "place".  

Answer 6

well hopefully your boyfriend is standing up for yoU!  if you guys are really happy, he should tell his mom that.  Just be as polite as you can with her.  Even though you might not like her, she's still his mom and you don't want to be disrespectful.  It'll be a lot harder for her to hate you if you're kind and just let her know you love her son and you wouldn't ever want to hurt him.