My brother's girlfriend insulted me yesterday. What should i do?

Question

She got mad at me because i wanted my brother to help me for a math exam i will have monday

It seems like she wanted to go to a party with his boyfriend (my brother) yesterday but he told her he couldn't go because he was going to help me for the exam, then they both start fighting for that and at the end she said something like... "Ok whatever go help your dumb bit**ch sister, I'm out of here" ...I mean i have never disrespected her or anything, i don't know why she said that.

Answer 1

becuase he is a spoiled immature buttface and if your sister puts up with that she is gonna be really sorry really soon

Answer 2

Awe...sorry to hear that, well...turn the negative into a positive...meaning...be glad your brother cares about you and your education, therefore focus on studying to ace your exam.  As far as the "girlfriend" is concerned, let him deal with it...stay out of it!   She seems to have earned disrespect in your eyes...so its up to her to be mature enough to apologize.  If she does, accept the apology...and move forward.  Don't make a big scene out of it with your brother or her...move forward, towards your own maturity, and "Dare to Dream" towards your career/s and goals.  You may be disappointed in the choices your brother makes concerning his dating...but respect his choices...its mishaps such as you experenced, is the lesson learned for him and her behavior may have been enough of a clue for him to make changes.  Remain focused and smile with confidence towards your success.  Hope that helps, thanks for asking.

Answer 3

Ehhh don't sweat it. She was just jealous that he would spend time with you STUDYING and wouldn't go to a PARTY with her. She is just a bratty b***h.... Flip her off next time you see her and ignore her. Oh and you are really lucky your brother is so nice. He seriously just passed up a party to help you study =l

Answer 4

She sounds immature, jealous and controlling.  She should take pride in the fact that her guy is such a great brother to you.  She must think the world revolves around her.  Don't take it personally ... you've never done anything to her. She just can't wrap her brain around him caring about someone other than her.  She needs to get over herself and be glad she has a guy that thinks family is important.  Now, if you guys were doing something weird like still sleeping in the same bed ( like when you were kids )  or inappropriate affection, that's one thing.  But this was him planning to help his sister with school work. She sounds like a piece of work.  If she comes apart over something like this, he better watch out.  This is just a sample of her crazy.  Cheer up and don't worry.  She's the crazy *****.  I guess you realize that she was only pretending to be nice.  This will be something  you and your brother laugh about some day.  Good luck on your test!

Answer 5

Maybe she was a bit jelouse that he had picked you over her and the insult probly was aimed at you, just to him to make him feel hurt. Also because she didnt get her own way, i wouldnt worry about it to much, when you see her next just be nice and friendly and she could apoligize?  

Answer 6

why not have a meeting with all  three of you, to make sure everything is work out, this way, she cannot say something or you say something without a witness around to not cause more issues..you don't have to been around her..

Answer 7

She honestly wasn't disrespecting you because it wasn't about you at all. It was all about HER and how she was pissed because she wanted to go to a party. Your brother did the right thing by helping you with your exam. If his girlfriend cannot respect your family, he doesn't need her. She sounds like trash. Always pick someone to date who your family respects and that you don't fear bringing home to show to them who your date is. Hope he dumps her.

Answer 8

OK,



I don' t want to be mean, but your and your brother where dumb for letting her say that about you. If that was me I would have whopped her a** right on site. Ain't no way I would have let any of my brother girlfriends or anyone disrespect me like that. Its possible she did that because she knows how u are.

My suggestion to you is to confront her, and if she gets smart with you again then sock her. Bet you she won't say nothing to you like that again

Answer 9

Well first thank your brother for having a talk with her . Hopefully during that talk he will tell her that she is the one that is a b***h and not you then tell her to just what she can do with herself . ( trying to keep it clean here )

If he decides to keep dating her the next time she comes over trying to be nice to you , tell her straight up not to say any thing to you unless it is a sincere apology .

Even after the apology I don't think I would be too friendly towards her for awhile .

Best wishes .