My brother always hits me and its not play. ?

Question

he hits me at least every day. he does it with so much force. sometimes he grabs me and doesn't let go. just keeps squeezing. my parents don't do anything. i don't understand why! its like they don't believe me. and today he grabbed me, held me down and he told me to try and get out. I couldn't so he got off grabbed me hard pushed me down and ran away. then he comes back after i get up and he hits me in the nose with all his force.

Answer 1

Parents...I just don't understand some of them...sigh....Can you ask your parents if you can get into karate classes? You need to learn self defense. I've learned just enough that I can take my 250 pound husband down and I am only 140 pounds....

Answer 2

i have an idea if you have a video camera hide it somewer make sure it on and catch him in the act then show your parents the video

Answer 3

i think he has autism my little cuz has it and that's the exact same thing he does but you can't really do anything about it

Answer 4

Thats awful. i rly think u should talk to someone like a school counselor. tell em what u told us and just explain everything calmly. maybe then u can have ur parents come in and u can tell them again what is happening. they might take u seriously if u talk to another adult. if they still dont listen, try telling another close family member and see what they say. u can also see if they will let u stay with them for a while just so ur parents know u r rly scared of getting hurt. im sure they love u and ur brother too and they dont wanna see u hurt or him in trouble they might just not know exactly how to handle it. maybe try family counseling too. and if u have any marks or bruises make sure u show whoever u r trying to get to help u so they know u  rly r serious. good luck and please be careful. if nothing works, as a last resort i would call the police.  

Answer 5

ny brother is 3 years oldr than me and does the same thin when u find a person with a real aswer email me plz!

Answer 6

sounds like hes got an anger problem and needs to see a counselor, try the school counselor, maybe your parents will wake up then, does he ever leave any marks?  if so show your parents.  try and satay away from him r have someone with you at all times possible.

Answer 7

you are gonna have to sit your parents down to talk. your brother may get carried away one day and really hurt you. he needs medication; attention is needed by both parents. they can hear him beating you in another room. please make them aware that this is a real issue. call social services, get them involved.

Answer 8

Get a baseball bat or something hard, and hit him back in the nose or anywhere else with all your force.

He shouldn't mind since he abuses u all the time

and ur parents shouldn't mind if they dont do anything when he hits u

If he doesnt like this treatment he will stop

also not to seem sick and twisted but honestly it sounds like he is slightly attracted to u

Answer 9

You need to seek someone with authority to help you out and you need to try to get out of the house more to avoid the bully.  Like take karate, self defense courses, etc...

I am sorry to hear that your parents do nothing.  That is not right.  

Have you tried calling 1-800-394-HOPE?  

www.dmlive.com

Dawson Mcallister is the guy on the radio and he gives great advice and hope to teens like you.

Or you can email him, too.

http://dmlive.com/emaildawson.html

I really enjoy listening to him and the advice he gives to teens.  Are your parents afraid of your brother? Or does he act like an angel in front of them but beats you up behind their backs?

Again, I am sorry to hear about your problems... I will pray for you.

Answer 10

Call the police. If he's hitting you as hard as you say he is, you'll have bruises for evidence to your parents and the police. He has no right to beat you, and shame on your parents for not caring.

EDIT: Someone else said to get a baseball bat. I have to say that that is not very responsible, violent, and dangerous, but it might be a good idea. Use it only in self-defense, but it will teach your brother to stop and back up, and if he really goes for you, that could knock him out and let you get away.

Answer 11

talk to your parents.

Answer 12

Your parents really need to do something about that. Sit them down and have a serious discussion. If they don't listen, then maybe you can figure out a way to prove it to them. Otherwise, you might have to go to an adult you can trust because it is not right that your brother does that to you. He sounds a little demented.