My brother and his new girlfriend (they're both late forties) are coming to visit. I know she is learning

Question

the cello. But I don't know her very well. So I'll ask her how the cello's going. But after that? It'll be ok, cuz she's pretty easy going, but I feel I could use just a bit of advice.

Answer 1

Just be yourself stary from polotics and religion but just use your brother as a strong hold ask them about things they do or did and she will pick up where you or he leaves off let her talk listen.

Answer 2

a bit of advice on what? How to make small talk? Just talk about her. Ask her stuff about herself like where she is from blah blah blah. People love to talk about themselves. So keep it about her and you can never lose.  

Answer 3

ask yor brother what are her interests, what else does she do or you can ask her that.  you will find a common ground so dont worry.  I tend to avoid politics and religion during the first visit but other than that anything goes.

Answer 4

As a musician, you'd be surprised how often people ask about specific musical things, then don't really have much interest in the answer!  You may find that asking her why she chose the cello and find out about her past musical experiences will be more enlightening and a better start to the conversation.  Additionally, if she is not a professional musician, it's likely that she's have TONS of other hobbies and interests to share.  As a default, consider some stock questions like a few good books or movies you've encountered recently.  If you're concerned about the conversation stagnating, it'll only make things more tense.  Finally, I would suggest finding out in advance from your brother if she drinks wine or cocktails and make sure that something appropriate is available if she does.  If she doesn't drink at all, it's much better not to offer them and leave her in the awkward position of having to reject the hospitality on personal or moral grounds.  Good luck!!  

Answer 5

Just follow the flow of conversation and be natural!

But if you really need more things to talk about ask her if she can play any other instruments, why she wanted to learn the cello. And other questions like where are you from.

Just relax and i'm sure she'll relax too and you'll have a nice chat!

Answer 6

Ask her about her likes and dislikes, however you may not have to extend yourself too much. She may surprise you and be a very talkative individual. Relax and enjoy her company, obviously your brother finds her interesting. So, I am sure that after you meet her you will as well.  

Answer 7

Just stare at her - she needs to learn how to carry a conversation.