My brother has aspergers syndrome. Is an explosive temper part of the disorder?

Question

My brother and i have no realationship and he pretty much doesn't know me at all. I try my best to get close to him like my other friends have with their normal siblings, but my brother scares me sometimes with his explosive temper and constant want and all i really want is a close brother-sister relationship like normal families. Sometimes i just wish that he didn't have his disability, but that would take away who he is, right? sometimes I find myself hiding from him. I've lived with this my whole life and i am worn out! I hate having to look after him all the time and lend him money that he never pays back!

Can anybody help?

Answer 1

Awww its ok. You have me. Lol jk. What i suggest is that u do things that maybe he wants to do. I understand thats it hard to be around him but u hav to accept him for who he is. Another thing i suggest is try to move closer to him like talk to him about things that he likes and if you notice hiss anger gettting out of control back off and give him some space for a bit. Trust me my brothers the same way. Then talk to him again and try to give him some positives u know things that'll make him feel beeter. And by the way if u lend him money thats ur mistake...A brother never re pays money...lol again trust me on that. :)

Answer 2

This could very well be. I have it and I'm going to be honest...other people's opinions don't faze me. We don't see the other side and stay with one opinion