He lives in a different country to us with his wife and their daughter. He has a high paid job and thinks he is above everyone else. He once offered his brother in law some wine and not me and my husband, saying that we wouldn't appreciate it.
He also wouldn't hold our son when he was born and neither would his wife. We went to stay with them a couple of years ago and they were both rude to me and my husband and made us feel so unwelcome that i wanted to leave. His wife held back with my husband because it's her husbands brother, but with me she was short and nasty.
I'm not a nasty person, i'm friendly and get on with most people. I ffered to help her with dinner and helped wash and wipe up when we stayed with them and i'm never brash or rude back. So i can't see why they dislike us, especially me so much.
I've tried hard with them, i even emailed them regularly for a while, but they've barely replied. it's not the sort of thing you can ask them about because the things they do and say are so subtle. My husband has noticed this too.
My brother in law is the mother of all snobs, he even ignored his parents for a while because he was ashamed of where he grew up. This man is not my cup of tea and to be honest i get on with most people but they just don't seem to want to know. Then on the other hand they will send my son a birthday and christmas gift, yet they don't ever ask about him or how he is.
Do i ignore them completely. I'd feel guilty if i did that because then my son wouldn't know his uncle, aunt or his cousin. I need your advice please?
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