My brother is 19 and was dating a 15 yr old....is it worth it?

Question

1. they both love each other but the parents and the law dont like it

2. if he looses her then he might just kill him self cause he loves her that much

3.she said that she is trying to keep him alive

4. hes goin 400 hrs without sleep because of this issue

5.no he has not done anything with her and said he'd wait till she's 18

Answer 1

I think its not really about how much he loves her. I think he is dependant on her, the same as someone might be dependant on a drug.  It sounds like he needs serious mental help.  

Answer 2

if they both love each other enough, they'll wait 3 years

but the way this guy sounds, she needs to get out of that relationship

but i guess he kinda trapped her into it

i feel bad for her

and that guy who would commit suicide to stay with her

Answer 3

You have a right to be worried about your brother. He is absolutely crazy about this girl, and b/c the law and her parents won't allow it, he is thinking about killing himself and he is worrying night and day over this.  Your brother needs to talk to somebody quickly like a school counselor or your parents, a trusted adult, relative, or a counselor b/c if he doesn't see someone to talk over his worries over this girl he could have a breakdown, get sick, or harm himself.  Please do this asap.

Answer 4

Tell him that if he really loved her, he wouldn't have gone after her. She is a minor, he is an adult. Tell him to get help now.

Answer 5

It is only worth it if he would like to spend some jail time. It's against the law for an 18 year old to date a 15 year old. That 15 year old is called "jail bait" for a reason. Your brother needs some serious counseling. He is very controlling, needy and clingy.

Answer 6

nope he wants ***  

Answer 7

Your brother needs professional help if you seriously think he would kill himself over this and he’s gone 400 hours without sleep (and I sincerely doubt that’s 400 consecutive hours, because that’s 16 days and after 16 days with no sleep your average person would either be insane or dead).  Brother needs help learning how to handle issues like an ADULT.  Either get him some help or get your parents involved so they can get him some help.

Answer 8

I agree 90% with the 1st person who answered your question.