My brother is acting like such a pervert, what should I do?

Question

Ever since my b*****s having been getting noticeably bigger he keeps staring at them like all the time, and it's not just that but he does it really obviously n stuff..

I can kind of understand why (because he's 14) what with the whole puberty thing & hormones but it's really disturbing to me that he would find his sister attractive in that way...

Whenever I wear anything the least bit revealing or tight or whatever he just stares, even if I notice. (not saying I do that a lot)

Recently I caught him peeking at me through the door while I was putting my bra on, and I actually saw him!

I got so pissed I just kicked him the nuts as hard as I could..

what should I do to get him to grow up and stop looking at me like that?

my friends all said he's weird and that I should just kick him in the balls if he ever perves on me again and that should get the message across.. should I do that?

Or should I tell my parents?

thanks

Answer 1

idk i guess hes new to b***s and hes not used to you having them

but yea you really need to tell your parents, just tell them whats happening

Answer 2

omg definetly talk to your parents start crying if you have to!!!!!!!!! for the moment try not to wear anyhting revealing ..  

Answer 3

Trust me, I know EXACTLY how you feel. I have a pervy six year old brother and whenever we tell our parents, they don't take us seriously. They say," no big deal, it's just a body part," but it's not like that. So here's what you do:

Tell him, you'll spread a nasty rumor about him, unless he stops. Or threaten to tell your parents. I mean, they'll probably take you more seriously than my parents would. They think everything about this culture is bad.  

Answer 4

Tell make it a big deal or you might be raising your own nephew.Your brother needs help and you need protection.

Answer 5

First. Stop kicking him. Cover up and have a talk with him. He will grow out of it. If he truly does have issues alert your mom so he can get proffessional help.

Answer 6

You should talk to your parents they can have a word with him about this

Answer 7

if my sister kicked me I would have knocked her out

the way to handle this to have a quiet talk with you mom

Answer 8

He's a young guy, what do you expect?

Answer 9

Talk to your Mom immediately.  Hormones are absolutely no excuse for his behavior.  If it continues, tell your Mom you want an inside lock on your door and make sure that you are never alone with him.  He may just be acting like a jerk, but he needs to be reined in NOW.

Answer 10

You should definitely tell your parents or another adult that you trust!