I'm 22 and my brother is 16. I am married and we used to live in my parents' basement, but we moved into our house last summer. My brother still lives with my parents.
Since we moved out, my parents have become very lax on enforcing rules that they previously enforced with an iron fist.
He isn't allowed to spend the night or go on trips with friends without their parents being home, and my parents usually always made sure that when he was hanging out at someone's house, there was an adult present somewhere (like upstairs).
However, one of my old friends' siblings hangs out with him and told me some disturbing news of him being drunk at school, and then I saw some pictures his friends put up on facebook of him drunk, playing strip poker with girls, and some of a big sleepover at someone's condo with no parents and both sexes even though he told my parents it was just boys and it was supervised.
I don't want to seem naggy and overbearing (next)
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