In short,my Gran died 2 years ago.My grandparents were hard workers all their life. They left the house to my mum as a life interest.This means,she will have a roof over head for life, and an asset to sell if she ever needs aged care down the track.
My mum has no money,been married 3 times and screwed them all over,been stupid with money all her life. Now mum wants to sell up now and party. She lied to us telling us conflicting things.
We went behind her back and got a copy of the will.She can NOT sell up and flip it away.Its a life interst for her,and us 3 kids are in the trust as well.We get what ever may be left over.We dont want the house or money,we want to prevent mum from being stupid. She hates us all now and is running around saying horrible things to the family. She got egg on her face when I gave her lawyer a copy of my lawyers letter.
She also has a new boyfriend and has asked us to sign papers so she can give them money and we refuse.Her boyfriend called me a liar and said she wouldnt do such thing.She admitted she did in from of her lawyer last week.
This has really taken a toll on my2 brothers & they want nothing to do with mum any more. I am on basic talking terms with her but its not good.
She blames us for this and pulls the guilt trips all the time.
We are only trying to prevent her from stupidity thats all. Its so involved and complicated though.Its really taken a toll on one brother.Hes depressed.My other brother is a cop and hes as hard as nails but its affecting him.
I really need some guidance with this one PLEASE!
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