so here is the situation, my brother has been dating this girl for about a little over a year now. I met her about 3 or 4 months ago and it seemed like we got along pretty well. now shes has this habit of commenting on things she probably shouldn't comment on like my clothes. I'm a mother of a one year old and money is tight right now yet she likes to comment on my clothes saying "why do you wear the same clothes all the time?" and other such comments like that. I always blew it off thinking oh well shes young she doesn't understand. (she's 20 years old jut turned 21 a few days ago) anyways things seemed OK but more an more she would comment on different things, and she likes to literally act like a know-it-all on every subject. so i took it because it was my brothers girlfriend and i didn't want to stir the waters. but what made me finally say something was when we all decided to get a townhouse together. well my parents offered to move her stuff from her old apartment to the new place. not once did she say thank you, all she did was complain the whole time and got mad because the side of her $100 refrigerator that her dad bought her got scratched a little. and she just kept going on complaining about it all. so i finally said you know what my parents aren't going to help you anymore. and she got mad at me saying i was being rude. and ever since we've been at each others throats. I just don't know what to do anymore...should I try to convince my brother to leave her? I'd hate to do that to him because he loves her but shes so selfish and self centered. once when they were arguing she told my brother he wasnt a man and that she was more man then he was because shes currently making two more dollars then he is at work. and his response was well i went to iraq and fought for our country, and her response was thats in the past, what are you doing now. well lets see hes going to college and working...hmmm that seems to me like hes going down the right path...but anyways I just don't know what to do with her, does anyone have any serious suggestions. we all live together and our lease isn't up for a year. please help! fyi I'm 24. my fiancee is 22 my brother is 23 and his girlfriend is 21.
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