My brothers moving out !

Question

My brother's going to be moving out soon because his girlfriends pregnant.

Despite his annoying habits, I'm going to miss him so much.

I love him more then anyone in my life ( not in an incestous way ! )

Apart from my boyfriend, i'm not going to have any boys left in my life that I can rely on. Well, i'll have my friends but I have this sort of special bond with my brother and boyfriend.

I tried telling him how i feel but he said it's all in my head. He said that since finding out that his girlfriend was pregnant he's been working a lot more so we've been seeing a lot less of each-other anyway. The only thing that's going to change when he moves out is he wont be coming into my room at night.

He thinks that he's still going to love me the same but I know that when his " sons " born that's all going to change. His son will be is priority, he's hardly likely to have time for me.

Apparently, we can speak on the phone every night and when he gets his internet connection, we can speak on MSN, yeah right.

Do you think he really thinks that's how everything's going to work out or is he just lying to get me to shut up ?

Answer 1

that's sad.

but you know it was goign to have to happen sooner or later.

you know your going to still keep in touch with him, he's your brother.

it's just not going to be the same

everyone w/ brothers or sisters have to go through this.

whenever you see him online you just IM him.

whenever your missing him a lot just call him.

have someone drive you down to his house to visit.

write him letters.

you'll get use to not seeing him as much, don't you worry.

good luck.

Answer 2

Its an opportunity to spend a special time and special moments with his new baby and show love for that baby as well as his g/f wife.  Your not losing him.  Your gaining more family.  So look at it that way.His son should be his top priority and when you have a child you will understand this.  Be patient it will all work out if you all work together.

Answer 3

I know what it is like to be such good friends with your brother.  I was with mine, and unfortunatley he was killed 4 years ago in a motorcycle accident.  He may be moving out, but he is still alive and with you.  You can still have a close relationship with him.  Be glad that he will be there on the other end of the phone when you call, because I do not have that priviledge.  That is good that you are so close with your brother.  You are right when you say that there is no other bond quite like it.  Good luck to you.

Answer 4

tell him it's not all in your head. call him everyday and email him everyday. visit him whenever you can.  

Answer 5

I believe he is just trying to comfort you. It might happen, might not. But you have to realize he is moving on with his life. Moving out is a big part of that, and you have the accept the fact that life is changing. There is no doubt he will love you the same. You just need to just stop and think about whats best for him, and what you can do to help. A child is a major addition to any ones life. And since your obviously a loving sister. All you can do is accept his position and provide support.  I'm sure this scares him as much as it scares you. You need to be there for each other. Wether thats apart or together. Be patient it will all work out in the end.

Answer 6

Then that should be good news for you!  Now you can invite as many friends as you want haha! lol :)

Answer 7

You are not losing a brother. You are gaining a sister-in-law.So, tell your parents, you are going to babysit your"nephew" from time to time, to keep them on your mind.

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